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May 18, 2023 23:51
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I accidentally sent a “Sounds great♡” without adding a comment, and now I’m worried that I may have been rude to the other person.
Would it bother the male users if I sent another “Sounds great♡” along with a comment apologizing and explaining that I sent it because I’d like to get to know [Name] better?
I’d appreciate any answers when you have a moment.
5 answers
Other
Since sending “That’s lovely” doesn’t trigger a notification, just quietly edit it and send it.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s not rude at all. You come across as a polite person.
That said, some papas check their “You’re wonderful” messages, while others don’t, so don’t expect too much from sending one.
I stopped making my profile public because the people I’d added to my favorites never sent me a “You’re wonderful,” while people I wasn’t interested in sent me tons of them. It became too much of a hassle, so I stopped.
Even among papas who haven’t disabled the feature, some may find it bothersome and not check it.
Still, if you want offers, sending a “You’re wonderful” is better than not sending one. Some papas do look at them.
Other
I don’t think it’s a bother at all (*^o^*) As a woman, I’d just think you seem like a straightforward person.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It all depends on whether the man likes you, so you don’t need to change anything or add anything.
If you’ve only just joined, many people are in the same situation as you, so there’s no problem. In fact, leaving it blank like that can come across as fresh and natural.
Whether things go well after meeting has virtually nothing to do with whether you have a written profile or not.
Before meeting, having a written profile can be both an advantage and a disadvantage. Some men may find your approach natural and appealing, while others might take it as a lack of enthusiasm. There are also men who feel that a proper description is necessary, so opinions are split.
If you send something now, it might come across as forced.
No matter how well-written it is, if the man isn’t interested in you, he probably won’t even look at your profile.
Other
Since you have the opportunity, how about sending something like, “I’m terribly sorry about earlier. You’re so wonderful that I was left speechless”?
Seriously, though, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the way you handled it. If the same mistake happens three or four times in a row, I might start wondering, “Is this person bad with IT?” (lol), but once is absolutely no problem.
Taro