How should I deal with a papa who keeps trying to make me eat a lot during overnight stays?

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I’m a female member of Universe. I have a few generous (well-paying) supporters, and I stay overnight with one of them every time we meet. He loves eating a lot: a full-course dinner at night, another lavish full-course room-service breakfast the next morning, lunch out together, and then going for dessert afterward. To be honest, I’m not comfortable with it. Is there any way I can politely decline breakfast the next morning, at least? I’m also grateful that he always books things like massages after dinner, but since we go after finishing a full-course meal, we don’t get back to the room until around 11 p.m. Then, after having an adult relationship (intimate), taking a bath, and going to sleep, it’s past 2 a.m. He wakes up very early, so I feel like I only get about five hours of sleep at most... I’ve gotten a little used to it, so these days I keep sleeping even after my papa (a male supporter) wakes up, but is there any way I can decline breakfast?

Answer 1

In that situation, just say: “I’m stuffed, so I can’t eat any more—no way!” “I can’t eat, Mitsuo!” works too. Basically, turn them down and defuse the situation without making things awkward. As an aside, when I read “there’s a generous one,” I assumed it meant a generous (well-paying) customer—but maybe it simply meant someone with a thick waist...? Taro

Answer 2

If you can’t handle something this simple and use the message board just because it’s free, you might have a few screws loose. Take care!

Answer 3

Since this is the opposite situation, I can understand how you feel. At the very least, maybe ask him to stop ordering the full breakfast course. For dinner, perhaps you could have your partner eat some of the courses for you. It’s fine for a man to push himself to eat because he wants to see the woman enjoy herself, but women shouldn’t have to force themselves. I think the word “diet” should get the message across to a woman. Some women are very slim but eat an incredible amount, while others are heavier but have small appetites, so I think it’s best to find out their preferred portions and tastes as early as possible.

Answer 4

There’s a good way to handle it. Just say, “I’m so full and uncomfortable, and I’m worried about gaining weight. Would it be okay if we skipped breakfast?” That’s a truly generous papa (a male supporter). I can’t believe there are older men who don’t even realize something like that.

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