Good evening, and apologies for posting so late.

People who do it a lot tend to be good at it, but there are still plenty of inexperienced—or simply bad—people out there. You could ask an AV actress and find out: apparently, even among AV actors who have done it countless times, some are clumsy or end up causing pain. I understand feeling scared because you’re a virgin, but I really encourage you to take that first step. I think it could broaden your horizons.

If you’re okay with me, I’d be happy to talk anytime. I’ve given similar answers several times in the past. Here’s the most recent one: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/15253 Please take a look. I’ve also written various columns, such as these: https://universe-club.jp/column/wakuchin71 https://universe-club.jp/column/wakuchin72 https://universe-club.jp/column/wakuchin73 This year, I helped one 19-year-old girl graduate from being a virgin—though it was outside the club. I haven’t kept count, but probably around 20 people in total. P.S. > People who do papa-katsu must be used to it, so they’re probably good at it. I don’t think I’m so much good at sex as I am at helping virgins graduate and guiding girls with little experience. It takes a certain level of skill, so it’s also quite rewarding. The “graduating while having a senior girl hold her hand” that I mentioned in the links above probably wouldn’t make sense to an ordinary man—especially a young man around her age—but I’m sure the person asking this question can understand the reassurance it provides. That kind of “skill” is something I have.

> Should I tell them that I have no experience before meeting? If you’re thinking about registering with Universe Club, I think it would be best to tell the staff during your interview. Some men aren’t interested in virgins because they feel they can’t enjoy intimacy with them. On the other hand, some men specifically want to meet someone who is inexperienced. In either case, I think including it in your profile beforehand would help reduce mismatches. > Is papa-katsu difficult if you have no experience with men? That depends on how you feel about it. If you simply want to have your first experience with anyone, I don’t think it would be particularly difficult. However, if you want to choose your first partner carefully, then it could become more complicated. You may have to think about what kind of person you want, whether you can actually meet someone like that, or deal with situations such as: “He was a gentleman during dinner, but his attitude changed completely once we went to a hotel. This isn’t what I expected.” Also, when you’re inexperienced, your expectations may keep growing. Then, once it actually happens, you might think, “Huh? Is that all there is to it?” or “I thought it would be much more amazing.” > I’ve also assumed that people who do papa-katsu are experienced, so they must be good at it. Unfortunately, that assumption is mistaken. Some younger people may be very good at it, while some older people may not be good at all. I also worry that if your first partner is the kind of man who thinks, “I’m paying, so you should cater to me,” it could cause you to develop a fear of men. > I’m interested in intimacy and in being the submissive partner in SM, and I’d like to try it. You may be overthinking it. I also feel that your expectations may simply be getting too high. I think it’s better to consider being the submissive partner in SM and intimacy as two separate things.

It’s actually quite common to come across women with no experience with men at all, or who have only been with one or two men. I suppose that’s something unique to Universe Club—you’d rarely meet women like that at other dating clubs. Some women mention it during the interview, and it’s included in the staff comments on their profile. Others only bring it up after you’ve met them. If you want to use your virginity as a way to attract clients, you could mention it during the interview. I can’t say whether it would increase your numbers, but the type of men you attract would probably be different. If you don’t have any particular preference, it’s better to be as open as possible and move forward that way—it keeps things simpler. I do think there’s some truth to the idea that experience makes someone better, but I’m not sure whether advertising your virginity will attract men who are particularly good at that. Besides, I don’t think all the male members of dating clubs are necessarily skilled in bed. You should expect there to be hits and misses. As for me, thinking back off the top of my head, I’ve met one complete virgin and about three women with virtually no experience. The first relationship lasted a long time. Of the other three, I met one several times, but she eventually said it was too difficult to be intimate with a man she didn’t even like, and that was the end of it. With another, I felt we weren’t compatible, so I was the one who said goodbye. The last one repeatedly got nervous and disappeared whenever the date approached, and eventually even deleted her LINE account. She was a really wonderful woman personality-wise, so I thought it was a shame—then the other day, I discovered that she had made her AV debut. Life takes all kinds of turns, I guess（笑） Taro