Good evening. Among those answering, is anyone currently seeing—or has anyone continued seeing—a married woman they met through this club?
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Could you share any precautions or strategies you used to keep her husband or family from finding out?
Conversely, if you have any stories about how things went wrong and were discovered, I’d appreciate hearing those as well.
I’m asking because the woman I met through this club and have continued seeing is married. I wasn’t told this when I made the offer. We’ve been seeing each other for about a year, but I only recently found out that she’s married. She has already left the club.
She’s a wonderful person, and I’d like to continue seeing her. I’m asking for advice on what to be careful about so her husband doesn’t find out. Thank you.
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Women can casually answer their husband’s call while in bed, saying they’re with “so-and-so, a female friend,” and can even chat on the phone when their child calls asking them to come home early. Men usually can’t talk so casually—or even answer the phone at all.
Since you haven’t noticed any issues for a year, she either doesn’t have children, has someone who can look after them, or they’re old enough. So I think the best thing is to keep doing exactly what you’ve been doing without changing anything.
If anything, the only support you might offer is being understanding if she has to cancel that day because her child develops a fever that morning, or if she has to cut a date short to pick them up from school.
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Come to think of it, there was only one person I met who was married—the person who answered.
Since I’m single, it doesn’t really bother me much. Though I guess that doesn’t really answer your question.
If it’s someone good you’ve been seeing for a year, I’d say be careful not to become too possessive and always leave yourself plenty of time and space.
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Make sure to use a condom properly so you don’t catch an STI from the person asking the question. HPV and herpes can also spread through skin-to-skin contact, so if possible, keep your underwear on, expose only your penis, and use a condom. No bareback oral sex either.
Ask them to contact you by SMS and delete the messages every time so nothing is left behind. Don’t use love hotels—you’re done for if a private investigator photographs you there. Use a regular city hotel instead, and enter and leave separately at different times. Other than that, you should probably keep around ¥3 million in savings, just in case you end up being sued.
There are plenty of single women out there, so you must be quite the eccentric.
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Good evening.
One of the women I was seeing got married while we were together. When I asked her how she wanted to handle our relationship after getting married, she said she’d prefer to continue if possible, so that’s what we’ve done.
In my case, she’s careful to make sure her husband doesn’t find out, so we don’t have any special arrangement or anything. She’s a responsible adult, so I leave that side of things up to her.
One precaution she mentioned taking is muting notifications from me on LINE. She told me this apologetically.
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