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May 4, 2023 19:53
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You’ll find customers like that in the adult entertainment industry too. For example, at a delivery service, some customers are fine with just talking—and for quite a long time.
If a man is mainly interested in sex but decides he doesn’t want to have sex, he would normally stop meeting you. So if he continues seeing you under those circumstances, I think it’s fair to assume it’s a preference of his.
People’s tastes vary widely. If you’re not uncomfortable with it, humoring him could be an interesting experience.
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Some men can’t make a move unless the woman gives them a little opening and lowers the barrier for them.
They’re the so-called shy type.
Even if both people are interested, if he doesn’t make a move by around the third date, the relationship can easily become fixed as “nothing more.”
Could that be what’s happening here?
I think things have continued because he’s attracted to you, so maybe he’s simply more interested in you as a person than in intimacy.
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Some people say their sex drive decreases as they get older. But even if their libido fades, they may still want to spend time with women. For those men, I think it’s perfectly normal to give an allowance for dinner only.
If I had to compare it to something, it might be a little like wanting to give your grandchildren pocket money.
Of course, since there’s no blood relation, I think the woman would need to be someone they find endearing beyond that.
There are also probably men who are no longer particularly interested in ejaculation or penetration. Maybe they’re satisfied simply by being affectionate and fooling around?
In that case, they’d probably go to a hotel rather than just have dinner, but the enjoyable part for them would be being affectionate there.
What people value differs from person to person, but I feel that the other person needs to be someone who can enjoy something like a genuine human connection.
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He’s a low-key, non-aggressive older guy. They’re actually pretty common. Usually, they’re not genuinely uninterested in sex—they simply have someone else for that, and keep the roles separate.
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I’m in the mood year-round, so I tend to try to head to a private room pretty quickly, haha.
Still, I guess it’s fair to say that not everyone gets that way, haha. If she’s the type who only does dinner dates, I won’t invite her to a private room even if I’m in the mood, haha.