Tips May 2, 2023 09:46

The other day, there was a question (or request?) about going without condoms, but as several respondents have said, it’s between consenting adults, so I’d like people to leave it alone.

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That said, I’d like to ask how I can negotiate this smoothly, since I want to have relationships without using condoms. I’ve already enjoyed life, so I’m not particularly afraid of STIs, and I’d like to date many women through the club. When I bring up going without condoms over dinner, I rarely get consent. So far, asking for consent during intimacy has had the highest success rate. Are there any other effective approaches? I’d also appreciate it if female respondents could share situations in which they might end up allowing it. Thank you in advance.
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 60s 👑 Universe male member
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
> “I’ve already enjoyed life, so I’m not really afraid of STIs.” This guy stinks— he reeks of something worse than vomit!! I’ve never encountered evil this vile in my entire life!! You’re saying he became evil because of his circumstances? No way!! This guy was born evil!! Please leave already. People who only think about themselves aren’t suited for a dating club. Can’t people like this be forcibly banned...?
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It’s precisely men like that who demand to do it raw or finish inside for a small allowance. Before your wife or other family members find out that you forced someone, gave the person who asked this question an infection, or got her pregnant— why not retire? If you underestimate women, you’ll pay dearly.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
You keep saying “consent between two adults,” but you’ve been making everything about yourself the whole time. I don’t care what you think. What matters 100% is how the other person feels. And the reason you don’t bring up condoms during dinner isn’t that it “lowers your chances.” Have you ever stopped to think, even for a second, about how a woman would feel hearing that? It’s me.
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How can I maximize my chances of success? → Go after someone with nothing to lose who isn’t afraid of pregnancy, STIs, or AIDS. You can probably find them around To-yoko in Kabukicho, right? → Only do it with someone you’d be okay with getting pregnant. If you’re prepared to give her over ¥1 million a month and support her for the rest of her life, then maybe. With a question like that, I can already picture your future: a woman threatening you with, “I’m pregnant! Give me money for an abortion!” “I got sick! Pay me compensation!” or “I’ll tell your wife and your company!” Basically, don’t underestimate women in papa-katsu.
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What do you mean, saying that persuading someone to go without a condom during intimacy has a higher success rate? Do you pay the allowance upfront before entering the room? If you pay when leaving, you clearly have no understanding of how frightening it is for her—being afraid of what you might do if you get angry halfway through, and worried that she might be used and discarded without ever receiving her allowance. Even if you do pay upfront, using a condom is still the norm. Especially if you’re seeing multiple women. Even if you’re not afraid of getting an infection, it’s frightening from a woman’s perspective. I think women will continue to get hurt as long as thoughtless, completely inconsiderate people like this questioner exist. If you absolutely insist on going without a condom, first obtain her clear consent before entering the room!! And you must tell her upfront that you’ve been intimate with many other women without condoms, then obtain her consent!! If you can’t do that, stop immediately!! What the questioner is doing is nothing but an act of violence!!
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
How can anyone even ask a question like this? Why? (Isn’t this just bait?) Some women also want dating clubs—not just companies and politicians—to have a mandatory retirement age of 60 or even 50 for men. Once you’re past your mid-40s, you should at least recognize that you’re an old man. That said, don’t you think you’re showing far too little gratitude for life…? A papa’s job is to do lots of things that make women happy…
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迷わない70代
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
As someone in my 60s as well, I found your question very helpful. Thank you.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
The person asking the question probably doesn’t have much time left, but the girls have their whole futures ahead of them, so wear a condom properly. When you get old and start leaking shit, you’ll wear adult diapers, right? A condom is your diaper. Don’t let your filthy mess spill everywhere. Don’t burden young people. P.S. I wanted to nip this in the bud before Arly-san wrote something weird, but I guess people like this really do exist, even among the elderly. As someone else in my sixties, I’m almost embarrassed, but people like this were probably the same way when they were young. Maybe age isn’t really the issue—they’ve simply become less concerned about money as they’ve gotten older.
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