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Apr 18, 2023 20:49
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s an emotion I can’t understand.
Feeling sorry for a woman you supposedly find so hateful?
How about trying a period of abstinence until you can genuinely feel grateful that she’s willing to have sex with you?
Just like everything tastes delicious when you’re extremely hungry, you might be able to feel grateful if you abstain until you reach your limit.
Other
Can you really put your own child and a woman from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) on the same scale?
They’re completely different, aren’t they? You can’t compare your own flesh and blood with a woman who’s a complete stranger and spends time with you in exchange for money.
You shouldn’t compare them.
Other
How can you even compare your own child with a woman involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
They’re completely different, aren’t they? You can’t compare your own flesh and blood with a woman who’s a complete stranger and is spending time with you in exchange for money.
You shouldn’t compare them.
Other
If you choose carefully from the start and treat her appropriately, you shouldn’t be met with that kind of attitude. So I think things can generally be resolved by: 1) trusting your first instinct when choosing someone, and 2) reflecting on whether you’ve done anything unpleasant to her—especially whether you’re acting superior just because you pay an allowance.
Or, as a test, try doubling the allowance.
This may sound blunt, but clean-cut men in their 30s and 40s can probably make offers and date as much as they want as long as they have the money. There’s no need to put yourself through unnecessary stress or become self-centered under the guise of being “positive.”
Other
My papa spends about the same amount on me as he does on his daughter—or perhaps even more, as he himself says. (Of course, his daughter will inherit a vast fortune, so I’m not comparing the two on equal terms.)
As for me, whom he met through a dating club, he says:
“I was walking down the street when I found a dog that had been abandoned. It kept following me everywhere, and I couldn’t just leave it behind. So I took it in, and before I knew it, I’d ended up spending this much money raising it.”
I hope you have a wonderful encounter too.
👨 Male
Universe member
Haha, exactly.
The solution is simple: just don’t make an offer.
My partner is about halfway in age between my child and grandchild, so while I do think she’s cute, I definitely don’t find her annoyingly bratty or anything like that（笑).
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re an interesting one.
Aren’t people who become papas usually the opposite?
That said, I don’t think I’d find my own daughter unbearably annoying, either…
I think the only solution is to develop habits that help you succeed in life.
Above all, stay positive and believe that your wishes will come true…
On some level, if you can be generous with your daughter, there’s a good chance you could be many, many times more generous with women from the club.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
②You’re both adults, so you should deal with your own emotional issues yourself. Besides, if you resent him that much, why not simply stop seeing him for an allowance?