Is wanting friends of the opposite sex just an ideal?
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An acquaintance of the opposite sex told me, “You like women, don’t you?” When I tried asking why they thought that, they dodged the question. I suspect it’s because I didn’t agree to have sex with them. (Probably…)
Afterward, I looked back through my LINE contacts and realized I only had men in there. I tend to get to know men because they’re easier to talk to casually.
What even is a lesbian?
I’m somewhere in between.
Why not try looking on sites for making friends?
Smartphone society is convenient, isn’t it? You could target gay guys, herbivore men, or gender-neutral/androgynous guys.
I’ve heard from pretty women that it’s tough for them to brush off all the approaches from men trying to sleep with them.
If you’re emotionally worn down every time a man wants something from you, you won’t be able to make male friends.
You could try going with a straightforward, strong-willed “don’t mess with me” persona, or, if you’d rather, adopt a sexually open persona and become friends under the name of “friends with benefits.”
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If the questioner is male, he’d be considered a “herbivore man”—a guy who’s not very interested in pursuing women.
Herbivore men have been increasing, but maybe herbivore women will be on the rise next.
Or maybe saying, “I mostly hang out with men because they’re easier to talk to,” simply means he’s lazy when it comes to building relationships.
Men are kind to women because they have ulterior motives.
Personally, I also find it much easier to become friends with women than with men. I end up thinking, “Making friends with guys is such a hassle—why do I even have to do that?” Even without taking sexual desire into account.
Women will fuss over you without you having to make any effort, after all.
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I couldn’t do it myself, but I’ve had female friends—and the women I dated also had male friends—so it doesn’t seem impossible.
It may come down to your own ability to handle it, simple compatibility, the other person’s attitude, or just the odds.
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Having a platonic friendship with someone of the opposite sex is nearly impossible for me without a physical relationship.
However, I think it would be easy if it were an allowance-based arrangement. As for the terms, I believe a relationship that’s entirely along the lines of an A-type arrangement would be possible.
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This is the anonymous Q&A box for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
It’s a place where you can ask anonymous questions about papa-katsu.
Did you know?
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