I like the undercut with a short, closely cropped style, so I always ask for this haircut when I go to the salon.
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However, I’ve recently become interested in dating and have started wondering whether I should pay more attention to my hairstyle.
I’ve heard that medium-length or long hair is generally more popular with men. Since my hair is neither, I’m worried that there might not be any men who would find this style attractive.
My current hairstyle is also part of my identity, so I’d rather not change it if possible. What should I do?
> Since my current hairstyle is part of my identity, I’d prefer not to change it if possible.
In that case, I think choosing not to change it makes the most sense.
There’s a saying: “Different strokes for different folks.”
There may be men who happen to like that particular style.
However, there might not be many of them on Universe. You won’t know until you register, so I think you should try registering as you are.
If you don’t receive any offers, you can always ask for advice again.
That said, the fact that you’re asking this question probably means you already have a sense that it may reduce the number of offers. If you’re simply looking for confirmation, then yes—I think the offers probably will decrease.
The question is whether you’ll stay true to yourself even if that happens, or change the things you’re willing to change in order to receive more offers.
If you make that decision based on what other people say, you may regret it, so it’s something you need to decide for yourself.
For now, I think registering as you are is the best option. There are quite a few things you won’t know until you try.
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If you want to stick with your current look even though you’ve been told it could multiply the number of offers, I think you should stay as you are.
By the way, I do like girls with shaved sides and two-block cuts—I was seeing someone like that for quite a while through Universe—but I don’t choose someone based on their hairstyle alone.
Growing it out takes a lot of time and effort, so a wig might also be an option. In fact, some people have profile photos and videos wearing wigs.
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If you’re looking for a genuine relationship between a man and a woman, ideally you should be with someone who likes you just as you are.
However, if your goal is to achieve a certain level of success at a dating club—getting offers and maintaining allowance-based relationships, preferably with multiple people—then I think it’s better to set your principles aside and adopt a hairstyle and appearance that are generally considered attractive.
It depends on what matters most to you right now.
Marika
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If you don’t want to change because it’s part of your identity, I think it’s fine to stay true to yourself.
But if you’re not attracting men when doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think you’ll have a better chance of being popular if you study men’s preferences and adapt accordingly.
It really comes down to which matters more to you.
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Whether it’s your hairstyle or the way you date, you shouldn’t change your identity. I don’t think changing just to appeal to others will do you any good.
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If you have an unusual job or are attractive, you’ll still get offers.
However, compared with having medium-length or long hair, you’ll probably get only about a quarter as many offers. Flashy, brightly colored hair will reduce them to about a fifth.
Older men like female news anchors, and younger guys like Nogizaka46. If you want to sell CDs, that’s the kind of hairstyle to go for.
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