Tips
Apr 9, 2023 20:03
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It’s one thing when I’m with people I’m comfortable around, but whenever I have a drink while dining with my papa (a male supporter), I end up dropping my cutlery. It makes a fairly noticeable clatter, and I can’t exactly say it’s very graceful.
How do men feel when a woman does something like this? Do they lose interest and think, “That’s unacceptable”?
Also, if anyone—male or female—has the same kind of reaction to alcohol, I’d love to hear how you deal with it.
5 answers
👨 Male
Universe member
I think a papa (a male supporter) would become wary if you made unnatural movements right in front of him. It’s probably best not to drink from the start.
Other
Why do you think you absolutely have to drink?
If you’re likely to behave that badly, you should write in your profile that you can’t drink.
Getting a little tipsy may be cute, but if you might become a nuisance—like dropping things—I think it’s better not to drink.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I wouldn’t be put off. I’d find it cute, and might even feel a sense of affection.
Do you enjoy drinking?
If you do, I think you should only drink with a papa (a male supporter) you’ve grown comfortable with—or feel you’re likely to become comfortable with.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Since it’s happening right in front of me, I don’t think it’s impossible, but I do think, “I don’t want someone so immature that they can’t keep track of how much they’re drinking.”
I agree with Marika—I vote for not drinking.
Other
I think it’s best to say you can’t drink alcohol and avoid drinking.
I’m not great with alcohol either, but I can have a little without becoming unsteady. In your situation, though, I would choose not to drink.
Marika