Recently, my lifestyle has changed, and I have more time to devote to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) than I used to, so I’ve started thinking about signing up again.
For those of you who’ve returned after leaving, how do people generally feel about it?
If I like her face and overall appearance, it doesn’t bother me.
I’ve had a couple of women in monthly arrangements come back after being away for a while. I vaguely remember two of them saying, “I ended things with the papa I’d been seeing for a long time and decided to start again.”
Since they already have some understanding of this kind of arrangement, unlike complete newcomers, I feel things tend to work out well in my case.
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There’s no way to automatically tell how long someone was away after deactivating their account, but their original registration date is visible.
So even if two people both took a break for the past six months, I think they give different impressions if one first registered a year ago and the other ten years ago.
In the former case, I might think, “Oh, maybe they deactivated their account because they had someone they were seeing regularly, but things ended with that person.”
Rather than viewing it as simply coming back, I’d actually take it positively and think they must have valued that person.
In any case, there are sections where you can enter information yourself, so you should use those to highlight your situation.
Wishing you the best of luck.
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Rather than it being because you’re re-registering, men may hesitate simply because your registration date will be a little old. Instead of worrying about that, I think you should re-register first and see whether any offers come in. Nothing will change by worrying about it here.
If you re-register and don’t receive any offers, you can always cancel again. You could also look for another dating club.
Popular women continue to receive offers even after several years, and offers can still come in after re-registering.
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Since men can see the date you first registered, it depends on when you joined.
If it’s been over a year, you could also look for a different dating club.
Either way, you won’t be seen as new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I think it’s best not to forget that.
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“Severity” scale
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① You’re provoking respondents because you want their attention, ② you’re not being malicious but are bored and want to chat, ③ you’re too lazy to look it up yourself or contact the branch, so you want a quick answer, ④ it’s simply a genuine question, ⑤ you’re seriously struggling with a real concern (severity increases from ① to ⑤)
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This is ④.
“Returning member” has negative connotations, so it’s better not to use that term.
It’s probably either 1) modesty, or 2) self-protection—saying it yourself before someone else can hurt you by saying it. If it’s 1), it’s a leftover from the bad Japanese habit of presenting a gift while saying, “It’s nothing special.” “What kind of impression do people have of women who re-register?” would be perfectly fine.
As for women who re-register: you probably don’t know this because women can’t view the album, but whether someone has re-registered isn’t shown by default. At most, a staff member might happen to write “This woman has re-registered” in her profile. So in practice, they’re treated just like women who have simply had new photos taken.
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