I’m a female member who has been with this club for many years.
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Partway through my membership, I started working in the adult entertainment industry, and I’ve had quite a few arrangements through this club as well, going to hotels constantly. But I still act all innocent and demure.
I feel like I should be honest about it, but I get the impression that the men at this club prefer inexperienced, ordinary women.
If I told them that I’ve had many intimate relationships through both the adult entertainment industry and dating clubs, do you think men involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) would still want to continue seeing me? And to the men reading this, would you make an offer to a woman like that?
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Well, calling it a lie—or continuing to keep quiet—must be tough too. I think it might be a good idea to change your profile and bring it up with anyone new you meet from the start.
But coming clean to people you’re already seeing probably won’t work out in your favor... It would feel like changing the rules after the fact.
I think it’s best to accept it as the price you paid for pretending to be so innocent and just leave things as they are.
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You’re quite the savvy operator yourself.
> Do you think men in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) would continue seeing her? And to the men reading this, would you make an offer to a woman like that?
When making an offer, you usually only know things like roughly how many offers she has received, based on her star rating. In my case, I’ve never made offers to popular women because I wouldn’t stand a chance against the other handsome papas.
If I somehow made an offer, entered into an adult relationship (intimate), and then learned about her past activities, I’d first discuss the terms of our arrangement with her—namely, that we would each only see one other partner—and then decide whether to continue seeing her.
I also started seeing the woman I’m currently dating under those same terms, but somehow it ended up becoming an exclusive one-on-one relationship.
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What men and women look for in a dating club varies from person to person. So even if you’re honest, some men will continue the relationship, while others will leave because they don’t like it—that’s really all I can say.
Personally, I make an exclusive relationship with one partner each the basic premise. If that isn’t possible—or never has been—I’d end things 100%.
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When they put on that innocent, well-behaved act（笑笑）
You might not realize it at first, but as you continue seeing them, their attitude and the way they talk can reveal that they’re currently working in the adult-entertainment industry. Once I figure that out, I fade out too.
I do think there’s a high percentage of papas who want to date an ordinary woman with no experience in that line of work.
In my case, I’d prefer a woman whose network is limited to something like this at most（笑笑）:
1 boyfriend, 1 friends-with-benefits partner, 2 other papas, and me.
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I actually prefer women with experience in the sex industry to those with no such experience, but I’m not okay with anyone who’s currently working in it.
The reason is that the risk of STIs is higher. I can’t continue seeing someone who’s likely to cause problems for their other partners.
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I’m not dating anyone who constantly goes to hotels or expects to go to a hotel every time.
You already know the answer, don’t you? Sounds like you enjoy baiting people and bragging…
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I don’t want to catch anything, so I’ll gradually distance myself.
I don’t continue seeing people like that, so I’ve kept getting tested and have always been fine.
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We live in an age that embraces diversity, but male members come in all kinds too.
Some people might get angry when they hear that, while others might be pleased.
Don’t underestimate the world.
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“Seriousness” scale
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① Provoking people just to get a reaction, ② wanting to make small talk because they’re bored, despite having no malicious intent, ③ wanting a quick answer because researching it themselves or contacting the branch office is too much trouble, ④ a simple, innocent question, ⑤ genuinely struggling with a serious problem
(the seriousness increases from ① to ⑤)
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This falls under ①.
It feels extremely malicious.
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