I’m considering registering with Universe Club.

In theory, the club makes more money when there are offers, so even if they steer someone, they’d steer them toward the option that gets offers. That said, it’s probably too much trouble, so they likely don’t do much steering. C gets the most offers. A woman in D said she wasn’t getting any offers, so I told her she might be better off switching to C. She changed her profile and apparently started getting offers. I have this admittedly arbitrary impression that D gives off the image of being okay with anyone as long as the money is right—and that because she’d be willing to see anyone, she’d probably demand a higher allowance.

> I assumed there was some degree of steering involved. There really isn’t—almost none at all. If anything, I feel sorry for the women. For example, if a woman says during the interview, “I’m torn between A and B…” They might advise her, “If you think an adult relationship (intimate) would be difficult, A might be better. You can always change it later.” Then, if she happily chooses A, they fail her in the interview. When I see that, I can’t help thinking, “What a sneaky staff member.” So there isn’t really any steering like that, but women can still be rejected. > I’m thinking of registering as either type C or D. If you want me to steer you strongly, I’d say you should avoid D because it isn’t popular. Many women seem to assume that D gets more offers than C, but it’s actually the opposite. If you choose D, you’ll receive very few offers. For some strange reason, men think, “I don’t want a woman who would sleep with anyone.” Men often idealize a woman who will have an adult relationship (intimate) only with them, but not with anyone else. I can’t help thinking, “But that’s contradictory.” However, many men are oddly confident that they alone are special, so they don’t see it as a contradiction. That’s why choosing D can actually result in fewer offers. So if you’re choosing between C and D, I’d recommend C. For a long-term relationship, I don’t think the dating type matters that much. However, many men don’t want you to be intimate with anyone else, so after you go on a date, it might be better to have your profile hidden from that man. Ultimately, it comes down to compatibility, so I don’t think it’s particularly meaningful to worry too much about the dating type. That said, some men specifically want C or B at the offer stage. Since that ultimately means they prefer C or B for the relationship, it does have an impact in that sense.

I don’t think I’ve ever made an offer for Type D. I think you should choose either Type C or D. Generally speaking, as Kazu and Dai have written, it’s probably C ≒ B ＞ D ＞＞＞ A. Personally, I’d rank them B ＞ C ＞＞＞ A ＞＞＞＞＞＞＞＞＞＞＞ D. Men who don’t offer D, or who offer even less than Type A, won’t be a good match for someone who thinks that the general order is D, C, B, A. Choosing B would probably increase the chances of things not lining up. It may work if you’re looking for a man who expects an adult relationship every time, but with a man who makes you think, “Please don’t let it go that way,” it will be difficult to continue seeing each other. Also, if you choose a type based on the number of offers alone, it may be difficult to build a good relationship. With Type B, even after things develop into an adult relationship, you may go on three, four, or five dinner dates before the next adult relationship—in other words, you might receive an adult allowance only once every four, five, or six meetings. Do you want an adult allowance every time you meet? What do you want to prioritize? I think you should decide based on that. Some people—both men and women—enjoy going on several dates first, while others prefer an adult relationship every time. It’s best to consult both your head and your body. P.S. > With Type B, you won’t know what he’s like in bed until you’ve gone on several dates. Some men actually prefer that. After going on several dates and building a comfortable, trusting relationship, you can develop a deeper physical relationship while feeling a genuine emotional connection. Compared with Type C, where it happens on the first day, that sense of fulfillment is hard to beat. It can feel like the true appeal of dating through a relationship club. That said, there aren’t many people you’d want to go on that many dates with in the first place… and I’m sure the same goes for the other person.

“Severity” scale ＝＝＝＝＝ ① Provoking people because they want the respondents’ attention, ② wanting to make small talk because they’re bored, without any ill intent, ③ wanting a quick answer because researching it themselves or contacting the branch office is a hassle, ④ a simple question, ⑤ genuinely struggling with a serious concern (severity increases from ① to ⑤) ＝＝＝＝＝ This is a ⑤. I wish there were more straightforward questions like this. My understanding is B > C > A > D. That said, my offers are roughly C ≒ B > D, and I haven’t made an offer to an A yet. I know several people who make offers to A types. With B types, I’ll say something like, “Since you’re a B type, I can’t invite you to an adult relationship from the first date, but…” The wording is a little tricky—you don’t want to come across as pushy. If she’s okay with it, she’ll say she’s fine with it from the first date. I only continue seeing people who say something like, “Today would be fine, too!” Otherwise, in my case, there won’t be a second date. D types are genuinely unfortunate. When you actually meet them, many are very innocent girls who haven’t been jaded at all. My advice to the person asking is to register as B, then switch to C once the offers settle down. You’ll get another wave of interest from people targeting C types. Going the other way—from C to B—isn’t a good idea. It just makes you look more guarded and doesn’t leave a good impression.

Like Kazu, I see it as C ≒ B > D >> A. With type D, the impression is that she’ll be with anyone depending on the allowance—in other words, from a man’s perspective, the allowance comes first. Also, if a woman is willing to be with anyone, she’d probably choose sex work instead, so there aren’t many type D women. In your case, you seem prepared for an adult relationship (intimate), so I’d recommend type B or C. Some men are satisfied simply by managing to sleep with a type B woman who’s difficult to win over. I used to be that kind of man. So whether things develop into a long-term relationship depends less on her type and more on the relationship you build with that particular man.

Everyone has their own way of thinking about that, so it doesn’t seem like any particular option is more advantageous. More importantly, I think it’s better not to choose a relationship type simply because you want more offers. In the long run, the disconnect between your stated type and your actual behavior can become an obstacle—not only to a long-term relationship, but even after you receive an offer. I think it’s mistaken to assume that offers generally decrease in the order of D, C, B, then A. If I had to guess, it’s probably C ≒ B > D >>> A. Personally, I’d say D = C >>> B, and A isn’t an option for me. I don’t expect someone to be exclusive to me, so either D or C is fine. But there are plenty of women I’d be willing to meet, and B is a hassle because you won’t know what she’s like in bed until you’ve gone on several dates. For a long-term relationship, what matters is compatibility—or rather, whether you’re both a positive presence in each other’s lives. So I don’t think the initial relationship type really matters.