This year, I’ve met a woman I know about three times. She’s a Universe member with a five-star rating, and she’s been asking me to pay her rent because she’s struggling financially, saying I’m the only person she can rely on.

There’s no one right answer—you have to decide for yourself. For what it’s worth, I recently found myself in a similar situation and, after thinking it over, decided to end things. A woman I had only met once asked to borrow her allowance the day before our second date. At first, I thought I wouldn’t mind losing around 50,000 yen, but as we continued messaging, I started to have doubts, and eventually decided to call it off. There’s no way to know whether she has other papas or is doing the same thing with other men. You may simply be her only target—or perhaps she thought she could take advantage of you, or that you looked like you had money.

I’ve had someone say that to me too—about their rent. They said something along the lines of, “You’re the only person I can rely on!” In my case, they said it on our second time meeting. I simply couldn’t understand how someone could feel—or even give off the impression—that “you’re the only one” when we’d only met twice. I could understand it somewhat if we’d been seeing each other closely for six months or a year and had gotten to know and share a reasonable amount about each other’s way of life, but… So I figured they were thinking, “There’s no harm in asking—if he pays my rent, great,” regardless of how deep our relationship was, and I ended things immediately. Since you’ve only met about three times as well, I think you should consider the situation carefully.

Of course the other women wouldn’t say that. If he’s seeing three other women, I’d take that as a sign that it would be okay to part ways and decline to pay his rent. But if the adult relationship (intimate) is really great and you don’t want to let him go, there’s always a chance he might find another papa if you stop paying. The decision is up to you.

Aren’t you asking because you already feel you don’t want to meet a woman badly enough to pay her rent for her? If you were willing to pay, you’d probably just pay it and meet her without asking. Marika

He’s basically saying, “Your allowance is too low, so raise it. If you don’t like it, we’re done, you broke loser.” Scary. If she’s a really great woman, just increase her monthly allowance by the cost of her rent and call it good. I actually searched to see if “Attack on Giant D*ck” was a parody of something.

If you’re receiving an allowance, there’s no need to ask him to pay your rent. If he were truly a papa (a male supporter) you needed, you’d never ask him to pay your rent—no matter how many years had passed. The only way I can interpret it is that she sees you as someone she’d be fine saying goodbye to at any time.

“Seriousness” scale ＝＝＝＝＝ ① Trying to provoke the respondent because they want attention, ② Has no ill intent but is bored and wants to chat, ③ Too lazy to look it up or contact the branch themselves and wants a quick answer, ④ Just a straightforward question, ⑤ Seriously struggling with a genuine problem (the seriousness increases from ① to ⑤) ＝＝＝＝＝ This one falls under ②. I thought it was the kind of question Taro would latch onto, and was looking forward to seeing how he’d spin it—but did your imagination really jump all the way to authentic Asia? As expected, nobody can imitate you, lol. The questioner should’ve just paid a month’s rent upfront, then insisted, “I paid the rent, so I have the right to enter that house.” They could’ve saved on love-hotel fees and might even have gotten their money’s worth. But don’t say things like, “If you’re putting your house in, put mine in too,” or, “Forget the house—take my huge one instead.” If he pays the rent, the questioner isn’t a generous papa—he’s a huge-dick papa. It might even be fun to take her from behind while taunting her, “From now on, call me the Giant-Dick Titan.”

Yes, it’s probably all lies, and she likely has plenty of other papas too. If this happened on the first or second meeting, it might affect the survey and lower her rating. But by around the third meeting, she figures there’s at least some sort of relationship established and starts trying to reel you in. She isn’t stupid—she’s just cautious compared with the kind of people who do this—but that mindset is still pretty far removed from normal. A decent woman wouldn’t trust someone after only three to five meetings, let alone ask them for a favor like that even if she were in trouble. It’s a sloppy tactic, and precisely because of that, I’m convinced she has other papas. Her offers seem fairly steady, so she’s probably in a position where there’s always another one to turn to if she loses one. If you have the money and want to believe her, then why not give it to her? Scattering money around and living in a utopia is one way to enjoy yourself. Alternatively, since you seem to have other women as well, if you wouldn’t really care even if this one disappeared, you could simply ignore it. If this is your first opportunity of this kind and you’re curious, you could start with questions like, “Where do you live?” Then gently pressure her by getting her to reveal information a lying woman wouldn’t want to disclose, or by pointing out inconsistencies. If she finds you annoying, she’ll cut you off immediately—after all, she has no reason to depend on you. But if you keep tossing the ball into the right areas, you’ll get some pretty good returns. It’s a great opportunity to observe the patterns in how women lie and how they act when they’re lying, and it could be a constructive learning experience if you plan to keep enjoying this sort of game. If you’re interested, I’d say give it a try. That said, if you want to enjoy those kinds of shady stories, Asia is the real deal. They go all-out with their lies, but they’re sweet at heart, which gives them a certain charm. If you dig deeper, you might find that the woman lives in something resembling a prison, or that her parents really do live in a hole in the ground—it can turn into a truly bizarre, “I Shouldn’t Be Alive”-style experience. If I’m going to spend money, I’d choose that kind of experience. But to each their own（笑） Taro P.S. Mac, “Attack on Giant Dicks” is insanely funny lol: I don’t think Mac has watched the anime, but it starts with humanity building 50-meter-high walls and hiding inside them to protect themselves from “giant dicks.” Then a “colossal giant dick” larger than the walls shows up, breaches the outer wall, and wreaks havoc… Later, the surviving elite troops venture outside the walls to look for a chance to strike back, only to be nearly wiped out by the sudden appearance of a “female giant dick.” And after all sorts of twists and turns, they discover that one of their own elite comrades is actually a “giant dick.” Then they learn that eating a “giant dick” can turn you into one, and everyone starts fighting over who gets to become a “giant dick”… The more I watch, the harder it is to stop laughing. It might be the biggest hit since the movie *Hentai Kamen*. Thanks. I’m running out of alcohol, so I’m heading to the convenience store now. I look forward to your continued support（笑）

Doesn’t “a woman begging a man she’s only met three times to pay her rent” sound pretty awful when you put it into words? In my case, the papa (male supporter) who pays my rent naturally started doing so after about a year, without me even asking. I think that unless it happens organically, the person asking will probably end up feeling uncomfortable about it later. Even as another woman, I find this completely off-putting. It would probably be best to quietly fade out of contact with someone that unreasonable. That said, if you still want to do it, I won’t stop you—but I can’t help thinking that yet another shameless woman is about to be unleashed on the world.

I think you should decide based on your gut, like you’re taking a gamble.

② How should I know? You’re an adult, so think it through and make your own decision. If you can’t do that, you’re probably better off going to a soapland. You can have sex for a set price without having to worry about all this.