I registered about three months ago. At the time, I changed my dating type from C to B, then from B to A.

・What do you think of a PJ who changes her relationship type repeatedly? I imagine she might change from C to B (or A) for reasons such as: 1. After actually trying papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), she found that, contrary to her initial intentions, she couldn’t do an adult relationship (intimate). 2. She found a stable papa (a male supporter), but wants to stay active and registered as a backup—in case she receives an offer from a more generous (well-paying) papa or gets cut off by her current one. 3. She got a boyfriend in real life. 4. She’s receiving treatment for a gynecological condition, including an STI. When you ask what I think, I don’t see her as indecisive. If anything, I feel she’s the opposite: someone who sticks to her own feelings and always wants to be clear about them. If she doesn’t like something, it’s a no; if she’s okay with something, it’s okay. Also, once she changes from C to B, I feel she’s already almost an A. And once she changes from A to B, she’s gotten very close to C. ・Are there actually people who change their relationship type frequently? Maezawa and Kazu have written that there aren’t many, but I’ve always felt there are quite a few. Maybe they simply stand out to me because I’m the kind of person who wonders, “What does this history of relationship-type changes mean?” In that sense, for someone curious like me—especially someone who likes unusual women—the fact that she keeps changing her type might actually be appealing. I might wonder, “Why has she changed it so many times?” and want to meet her in person to find out the truth. A few months ago, unusually for me—possibly for the first time—I made an offer to a married woman because her profile was a little mysterious, and I really wanted to find out more. As expected, her husband’s particular preference was something rare that I’d never heard of before, so it was quite interesting. Still, I’ll refrain from continuing, since it would become an affair.

If you keep going back and forth between C and A, changing it all the time would be a hassle, so why not just set your type as CA? You might get more offers. If you’re somewhere between B and A, but lean slightly more toward B, BBA might work too. Though people may be a little more hesitant about that one. Taro

It’s not just about the number of times you change it. If you go from C to B, then B to A, people may get the impression that you actually felt like an A from the beginning, but started out as a C because you wanted to receive offers. Likewise, if you change from A back to B, I think many men will assume that you stopped receiving offers after switching to A, so you changed to B because you wanted more offers. In other words, there’s a good chance people will think you’re changing your relationship type in order to receive offers. That said, this is only one possibility. Some men may understand it as a change in your feelings. But if you can honestly say that you are definitely a B now, regardless of what anyone else says, I think you should change it right away. Also, you should make sure the staff know the situation properly. Otherwise, you may worry about how they’ll respond if a man asks about it. You could send them something like this on LINE: “A kind gentleman took his time building a relationship with me. It took a while, but we were eventually able to have an adult relationship (intimate). Since experiencing an adult relationship lowered my psychological barrier, I feel that I’ll be able to have one going forward as well, so I changed my type to B. The reason I chose B instead of C is that I would still feel uncomfortable if someone came on too strongly. I’m hoping to meet someone who is willing to take things slowly—at least having dinner only (no intimacy) on the first date, and moving on to an adult relationship from the second date onward.” If you explain it that way, the staff will understand why you changed to B and feel reassured. Then, if a man asks about it, they can say something like, “That’s the reason, so as long as you take things slowly, it should be fine.” > Are there actually many people who change their relationship type frequently? Not really. There aren’t many.

>・What do you think of a papa-katsu girl who keeps changing her relationship type? I get the impression that she’d be a hassle. That said, if she changed from Type A to B or C, I could understand that her psychological barrier had probably come down, so I might make her an offer. >・Are there actually women who change their relationship type that often? I think women who change it repeatedly are extremely rare.

I don’t really mind when someone changes their relationship type. More importantly, I think it’s best to stay within the range of what’s possible for that type. If the chances of an adult relationship (intimate) are extremely low, then it’s probably best not to choose a relationship type that suggests one might be possible. That said, I understand it can be difficult since it ultimately depends on the person you’re meeting...

Women who have changed their terms once aren’t all that uncommon, but those who have changed them two or more times are rare. In general, women who change them frequently tend to be unpopular, since it’s hard to tell what they really want. As a precaution, I recommend explaining the circumstances clearly to the staff. If you don’t have any negative feedback, the staff may explain the situation when men inquire about you.

It’s completely normal—and, really, the sensible thing—to have these kinds of concerns. There’s nothing strange about it at all. Nothing can begin unless you receive an offer, so you may work up the courage to choose Type B or Type C. But then you might find it difficult, or feel uncomfortable depending on the man you meet. On the other hand, you may also find someone you feel comfortable with. There are plenty of male members who welcome women with these kinds of genuine, natural concerns. I’m totally fine with people misrepresenting their type, too. If anything… um, though honestly, part of me does wish they wouldn’t… Changing from A to B gives a pretty bad impression. In your case, I think it would be best to change from A to B, then switch from B to C as soon as possible, and return to B from C as quickly as you can. I’m not sure whether you can change it that many times in such a short period, but if you can’t, I think it would be fine to leave it at B.