Kida here—I’d like to answer as well.
What Takita Ai wrote feels only about 2 mm away from saying, “Someone like you can’t register here,” so I don’t think it’s appropriate.
If I understand correctly, you’ve never tried papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but you’re interested or have a reason to do it, and are currently considering registering, right?
You don’t know what the other person is like, and the people at the club may seem scary too. You’re worried that you might be forced to start working at a delivery health service, or charged a registration fee of two million yen—that’s the stage you’re at, right?
That’s why you want to join on the assumption that there won’t be any physical relationship.
I understand how you feel.
For your own safety, I think you should give up on joining. There are plenty of other ways to make money, and you really can’t make that much through papa-katsu anyway.
You may be told unpleasant things by unpleasant people, or dragged into a hotel.
You might even be drugged and sold off to Malaysia.
Maybe you saw some Universe ad saying that papa-katsu is an easy way to make money, but that’s a lie.
You understand how dating clubs work, right?
You also know that while men can’t force you into a physical relationship, many of them do want one, right?
I dislike men who complain, “There are nothing but dinner-only girls here,” but I also dislike women who say, “I’m registering on the assumption that I won’t have a physical relationship.”
Who do you think you are?
If you think you only need to appeal to men who are satisfied with dinner only, you’re mistaken.
I don’t know whether you intend to have an intimate relationship or not. If your attitude is that it depends on how things develop, then I’d be happy for you to register.
But when you say it’s a prerequisite, it rubs me the wrong way.
Dating clubs are in the business of creating excitement and anticipation.
Some people may consider holding hands and walking along the beach to be a relationship. Someone with erectile dysfunction who can’t have sex may consider simply looking at a woman’s naked body to be a relationship too.
But if there’s no excitement, it isn’t really a relationship.
Being paid 50,000 yen for penetration isn’t a relationship either, and playing at being a couple on the assumption that there will be no physical relationship isn’t an adult relationship (intimate) either.
It’s true that our club has a Type A category, which is for dinner only (no intimacy). But even that is based on the premise of forming a connection through genuine feelings.
Male members aren’t registering just to rent a girlfriend. I believe they’re looking for encounters that move their emotions, even if only a little.
If what you mean is, “I’ve never done this before, so I don’t really know what to expect. I’m scared at first, so I’d like there to be no physical relationship initially, and if I feel comfortable, I’d like to reconsider then,” you’re welcome.
Otherwise, I don’t think you should join.
