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Mar 22, 2023 18:07
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How can I shift my mindset? I don’t mean this maliciously—I’m genuinely troubled.
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Close your eyes and use self-hypnosis, imagining you’re being held by Ohtani.
Close your eyes, and while it’s happening, just imagine all the fun things you’ll do with the allowance you receive and all the delicious food you’ll eat.
But, you know, they say good-looking guys are usually bad at sex. They can get by on their looks alone.
So maybe it’s more fun to give up on his appearance and focus on ways to make yourself feel as good as possible, or try out techniques you might want to use with your boyfriend next time. It’s probably better to think positively about it.
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🏅 明け方に低頻度で浮上する回答者です
細く長く続けばいいなあ
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Fullerene!
I don’t think the real issue is “the difference between Shohei Ohtani and the papa you’re meeting tomorrow.” I feel like what’s actually painful is being someone who can only meet a papa, rather than Shohei Ohtani.
You seem to have fairly low self-esteem. If you get into the habit of measuring your worth by external factors, you may end up drifting farther away from happiness.
For example, what would you think of someone who happened to be Shohei Ohtani’s classmate in elementary school and constantly bragged, “I get to see him whenever he comes back home”?
You might think they’re lucky, but you probably wouldn’t think the person themselves was amazing, right?
Not that it really matters, but Lars Nootbaar’s mother seems like a very魅力的な woman. It didn’t feel strange at all when she called out, “Shohei-kun!” lol
That’s the result of something acquired later in life, after all. lol
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
At the victory celebration, the standout players said things like, “They’re teammates for life” and “I’ll never forget this.”
I hope you find a papa (a male supporter) who’ll be in your life forever—someone you’ll never forget!
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s just how papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is.
Ohtani-san isn’t giving you an allowance, is he? lol
That comparison is way too extreme. lol
Other
Isn’t the real reason that you simply don’t like that papa, rather than the gap between you and “the great pitcher” being too wide?
Seeing that dazzling person on TV made you realize just how little you actually like your papa.
You could always say you’re feeling unwell tomorrow, or come up with some excuse and cancel the meeting. While you’re at it, I think you should end things with that man as well.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is definitely #1. Whether you read it diagonally or upside down, all you can see is bad faith—and there’s nothing sincere about it.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
①You might not measure up a little compared with Kanna Hashimoto, either.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You may be seriously troubled about this, but it doesn’t come across that way to me, so I’ll go with option 1.
I think you should just cancel by saying you’re not feeling well.
Also, I don’t think it’s appropriate to name someone who has nothing to do with the issue. Public figures have it tough, too.