I went in for an interview about two weeks ago and registered with the service. I’ve met several men since then, and I’ve been able to enjoy talking with them without feeling as nervous as I expected.
While messaging one man on LINE, the topic of a questionnaire came up. He sent me a message saying something like, “I’d be sad if this questionnaire was written by you, ○○-chan.”
The questionnaire was a girl’s response describing her dissatisfaction with dates with men. Of course, I didn’t write it, but are men able to see the questionnaires submitted by the women they’ve been matched with?
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> Can you see the answers to the survey sent to you?
No, you can’t.
However, if the respondent chooses to allow publication, the answer will be published anonymously.
The issue is when someone writes something that other men should be warned about, such as not receiving any money or being hit—like being slapped hard enough for their face to remain swollen until the next day.
In such cases, the staff will contact the woman who wrote it and ask whether they may verify the facts with the man.
Of course, if she asks them not to, they won’t. But then the man may do the same thing to the next woman.
On the other hand, if she agrees to verification, they’ll tell him something like, “We received this report from this woman,” which means he’ll realize who wrote it.
That said, I doubt you’ll have anything more to do with a man who behaved that way, so I think it’s better to cooperate if it can prevent him from being introduced to someone else the next day.
However, if you’ve already given him your personal information, you never know what he might do, so in that case, it’s probably better to choose not to have it verified.
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Thank you for your question.
https://universe-club.jp/mensvoice/
After a date, the woman’s feedback will be reflected here once she completes the survey.
I highly recommend keeping a man’s perspective in mind. That said, sometimes you may also need to adopt a more transactional mindset: don’t worry too much about whether the other person likes you—if they don’t, it is what it is.
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The answer would be: “I don’t think the branch staff would tell you, even if you asked.”
Setting that aside, if I apply this question to the “seriousness” scale I came up with earlier here:
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/15166
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① You’re provoking the answerer because you want their attention
② You’re not being malicious, but you’re bored and want to chat
③ You’re too lazy to look it up yourself or contact the branch, so you want a quick answer
④ You have a genuine, innocent question
⑤ You’re seriously struggling with a real problem
(The seriousness increases from ① to ⑤.)
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I’d say this one is probably ④.
If possible, questioners could add something like, “My level of seriousness is ‘④ Genuine, innocent question’” at the end of their post. That would help answerers tailor their responses to the appropriate context. Please feel free to make use of this.
As for those in category ①—if you openly declare that you’re asking because you want to provoke the answerer and get their attention, I’ll accept your “question.” Bring it on, you punk!
If you don’t declare it, I’ll just ignore you.
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I seem to remember there being options in the survey section for complaints:
- Is it okay to tell the other person?
- Don’t tell them
I imagine that if you choose “It’s okay to tell the other person,” it gets passed on to the woman?
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Survey responses are published only if the person who wrote them agrees to have them made public.
However, they’re anonymous, so you can’t tell who went on a date with whom.
That means you won’t know whether a response is about you, and you can’t view it. Even if you inquire, they won’t show it to you.
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After a date, you may receive a survey request that you can answer, and you can also leave a comment about your experience.
If you agree to make your feedback public, it seems to appear immediately after you submit it.
You can view the other person’s feedback if they chose to publish it, but unless it mentions specific details, you probably won’t know which survey is about you.
In the past, I once received a message from a female partner through a staff member saying, “Please tell ○○,” so I think you can also ask the staff to pass along a thank-you or other message if you wish.
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