I’ve been seeing a papa I met here for about six months.

Reading your question, it seems that what you want most is for the man you’re seeing to choose you exclusively as well. Couldn’t you tell him, “I’m willing to focus on you exclusively, so I’d like you to do the same”? Even if you met through a dating club, I believe both people should approach the relationship as equals...

① For those who tell their partner that they’re the only one, while actually seeing multiple partners, what do you do to avoid getting caught? ↑ I’m not a woman, but I think you should: 〇 Be fully accommodating to each papa’s schedule and preferences. 〇 Avoid mixing up details about your other partners when talking with a papa. That said, I don’t think there’s any foolproof way to prevent your identity from being exposed… ② If I re-register, is it possible to keep my profile from appearing in the “New Arrivals” section on Universe’s homepage? ↑ 〇 Have your profile hidden and only be introduced through the club. Also, perhaps refuse introductions to male members who have already made you an offer? You’ll probably receive fewer introductions, but if you can continue your existing arrangements, I don’t think fewer introductions would be a problem.

① They’re obviously not going to tell you something like that so easily. If you ask in a place where you don’t know who’s reading, there’s always a chance that your papa (a male supporter) is reading it too. If you’re going to see multiple people behind your papa’s back, use your own judgment and take responsibility for your actions. ② I’m not a staff member, so I wouldn’t know. I don’t think there’s any way to guarantee that you’ll never get caught.

I can’t answer question ① because it doesn’t apply to me. I’m in mutually non-exclusive relationships, and I only ask what kinds of men they’re seeing as a conversation topic. As for ②, once you re-register, the number of offers will definitely be lower than for newly registered women. So if your profile doesn’t rank higher in searches after re-registering, men won’t be able to find you, and your offers will almost disappear. You can ask the club to hide your profile from the papas you’ve met before, but… As I mentioned before, this actually happened: there was a woman I met once, and we got intimate. I personally had a great time. After exchanging messages a few more times, she started leaving me on read, and we eventually parted ways without me ever knowing what had upset her. When she stopped appearing in my searches, I assumed she had left the club… But some time later, when I had Black membership, the club staff unexpectedly introduced her to me as a secret recommendation. In other words, staff members are human too, so they can make mistakes. That’s why I think you should resume your activities only after accepting that your relationships with some men may end as a result.

① Nothing in particular, really—just be careful not to call someone by the wrong name. Other than that, you might want to choose your date areas and restaurants carefully so you don’t get seen with another papa. A friend once told me she tries not to wear too many designer items. Someone made a sarcastic comment like, “You must be earning quite a lot.” If the items were gifts from that person, then it’s fine, but otherwise it may be better not to own or wear them! ② I’ve never heard of profiles not appearing in the new listings, so I think it’s best to have any papas you’re currently seeing, as well as private acquaintances and friends, hidden in advance. I review my hidden list whenever I have new photos taken.