Someone said, “The men you women will have to deal with from now on are exactly this kind of older man.”
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But are women really the only ones expected to make one-sided efforts to win men’s approval?
If that’s the attitude, then women should also be free to speak bluntly and act without consideration for men, saying:
“This is the prototype of a dating woman. The young women you men have to deal with are exactly like this.”
That should be perfectly acceptable too, right? That’s only fair, isn’t it?
Or is the message directed only at women: “Don’t get carried away. What makes you think you’re on equal footing with men?”
In other words, the kind of world this club wants isn’t one of gentlemen and ladies who care about each other, but a dog-eat-dog world where everyone is trying to take advantage of everyone else, isn’t it?
I never imagined this would be such a vulgar club. I’m disappointed, so once the arrangements that have already been scheduled are over, I’ll be leaving the club.
Maezawa here.
> I never expected this club to be so vulgar. I’m disappointed, so I’ll leave once the settings that have already been arranged are completed.
I’m sorry we’ve disappointed you.
That said, since you already have settings arranged, I assume you’ve had a fair number of dates here.
If so, wasn’t everything written here? Perhaps you’ve also met some good men. If anything, I feel your actual dating experiences are more important.
Many members have met wonderful men and gone on to have long-term relationships.
I think it would be best to make your own judgment based on what you’ve seen and experienced, as well as your direct interactions with the staff.
Since the anonymous question box is anonymous, there’s also a high possibility that some posts are written by people who aren’t members.
(I’m referring to the person who asked the question.)
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I’m Saito, the columnist♪
I’m a man myself, but I try my best not to be disliked by any woman I meet, even just a little. Haha.
I have no pride or anything like that.
I’m simply grateful that they’re willing to meet me.
Whether it’s humans or AI, as you said, it’s impossible to judge everyone equally in the first place.
I think that imperfection is what makes things interesting.
So the “going rate” for dating arrangements mentioned in one of the answers isn’t a rule, either.
There are 3,000 male members, so it’s really unfortunate that people judge all men based on one person’s opinion.
I don’t think the comments from the limited number of participants in an anonymous question box represent everyone.
If you don’t like it, then, as you said, I think choosing to leave the club is perfectly reasonable.
That said, I’m fortunate to have an arrangement through Universe where we respect each other and maintain a humble relationship.
Of course, from your perspective, I’m just one example.
And from my perspective, your viewpoint is also just one example.
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