I was told that if I did papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I wouldn’t be able to marry a decent man.
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They said that because I’d become a woman who could be bought with money, good men would avoid me. The person who said this was an older man.
Personally, I don’t want to get married, so I just brushed it off. But do men really judge women differently because of this?
If a woman does papa-katsu, can people tell that she’s involved in it?
The man I spoke to said you can tell by the things she owns.
Questioner, can you really tell exactly who is doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
We men can’t know for sure either.
Some women look refined and sleep around, while others look flashy but are actually very reserved, right?
As for their belongings, lol—if you mean they carry designer brands or expensive things, you can’t tell whether they’re from a wealthy family, work in the nightlife industry, or simply work hard and earn well.
That’s just that older man’s personal opinion, so you don’t need to worry about it.
Enjoy papa-katsu to the fullest, receive your allowance wisely, and get married happily. You can do it.
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That older gentleman is incredibly perceptive..!!
If you don’t want to get married in the first place, I think you can simply disregard his opinion. It doesn’t seem like you need to rethink anything.
As Fullerene-san also mentioned, women who aren’t easily figured out are wonderful and know how to live life well!
Yuki Higashino
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I’m Frieren!
At this point, doesn’t the male perspective of whether he “gets” you or not seem beside the point? It doesn’t look like you and this psychic older man are going to get married, after all.
Try going about things with this in mind:
“Some women are understood, and some aren’t.”
And honestly, I feel that women who aren’t easily understood may actually do better with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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There’s no way you could know that.
That man is the type to judge people based on his own assumptions.
As you’ve been doing, the best thing is to just let it go in one ear and out the other.
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