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I heard this club isn’t very reputable. Do you offer papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) where I can earn money without an intimate relationship?

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This is Fullerene! If it’s operated in accordance with the law, wouldn’t you say it’s legitimate? Pachinko parlors and pharmacies are also operated legally and responsibly, after all. That said, abuse is never okay. Overdosing, for example, is dangerous. I think dating clubs are the same. Try to stay within what you can personally control.
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It feels like the line between what is and isn’t “wholesome” has become blurred. That said, A- and B-type arrangements—and even C-type—can still be wholesome. I think it depends on how you look at it. Also, I recommend clearly explaining your preferences to the staff during your counseling session.
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“Wholesome” can be a pretty complicated concept. When you start asking what is and isn’t wholesome, things get difficult. For example, women going to the pool in swimsuits during the summer would be considered unwholesome in some eras or countries, right? In some countries, even walking around with your face uncovered might be considered unwholesome. When someone says, “I heard this club isn’t wholesome,” it can sound as though this particular club is the only one that isn’t. But if this club is considered unwholesome, then you could say that all dating clubs are unwholesome—and that dating apps and dating websites are all unwholesome too. That’s because, in Japan, people under 18 aren’t allowed to use them. Of course, some people might say, “I’m seriously looking for a partner, so it’s wholesome,” or “I’m looking for someone to marry, so it’s wholesome,” or “I’m not seeking an intimate relationship, so it’s wholesome.” Everyone has their own interpretation. But if we’re willing to accept everyone’s individual interpretation, then this place would also qualify as wholesome. After all, we’re simply arranging dinner dates, and what happens afterward is up to the two people involved. We don’t force anyone into an intimate relationship, and this isn’t a sex work establishment. > Are you doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) where you can earn money without an intimate relationship? I think some people can earn money that way if they have the talent for it, while others may not be able to. So, if the answer is considered “yes” as long as even some people can do it, then I suppose the answer would be: There are people doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and earning money without an intimate relationship. Ultimately, though, I think it depends on the person asking and what they’re capable of.
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Whether to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without physical intimacy is for the person asking to decide, and whether they can make it work depends on their own abilities. It’s not for the club to decide.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s because papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) allows men to have a physical relationship and women to receive an allowance in a relatively wholesome, safe way, so there are plenty of members of both genders. From the payer’s perspective, I can’t bring myself to offer a high allowance with no physical relationship involved. That actually feels less wholesome to me. If you’re only going to eat and chat, there are plenty of professionals at upscale clubs, dating clubs, paid drinking dates, hostess clubs, and girls’ bars. Wouldn’t you enjoy yourself more—and keep things more wholesome—there?
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Universe is pretty legit. That said, the women are also high-caliber, so even if you’re looking for a papa, you may not necessarily find one. Depending on the dating type, some men may agree to become a papa without an intimate relationship, but I think they’re a small minority and usually only for a short time.
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I’m Zuiki, a male member who loves healthy physical relationships. Thank you very much for registering with our club. We truly appreciate it. That said, I’m terribly sorry, but our club primarily focuses on wholesome, open adult relationships, so our lineup may not be able to meet your expectations 100%. Of course, we do occasionally get a hidden gem or two that may be just what you’re looking for, so I’d be grateful if you could wait patiently. That’s my personal opinion—shop closed, shutters down.
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It depends on the person involved—you can have a healthy relationship. If you don’t have what it takes, you simply won’t be able to do it anywhere. That said, I don’t think whether or not there’s a physical relationship is what determines whether it’s healthy. There are papa-katsu women who scam people or lie, right? You can’t exactly call that healthy. That’s just my personal opinion.
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