No matter how much I loved someone, once we break up, I consider them no longer part of my world. So even if I learn that they’re in a terrible situation, I ignore it.
If you keep looking back at someone who’s gone, it becomes harder to see what’s right in front of you.
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I’ve never had a falling-out that ended things, but we’ve agreed that she can contact me if anything comes up—whether it’s financial or something else.
If she reaches out, I’ll probably meet with her and listen.
In my case, ever since I started using a dating club, I’ve always made sure to stay reachable and reply without fail. I’ll continue to do the same.
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If I found out about my ex’s current situation through anything other than her reaching out for help herself, I’d honestly find that man incredibly creepy—it would send shivers down my spine.
I wouldn’t want anyone thinking she became unhappy after breaking up with me, either.
Yes, I’m strong-willed, so I’m probably not cut out for married life.
Sorry.
But maybe I could take advantage of a young, vulnerable woman.
If it was all an act to get money out of him, then the woman wins.
Marika
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I don’t know, since I’ve never had a falling-out that ended a relationship.
Even if we had parted on bad terms, if a woman I used to be close to was going through a difficult time, I’d still wonder whether there was something I could do to help.
But I don’t think that means simply giving her money.
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I’m Zuiki, a male member who’s as affectionate as EGO-WRAPPIN’.
Since this is a papa-katsu Q&A site, that woman you were so deeply involved with was obviously a PJ.
After ending things in a fight, what are you planning to do now, and how do you expect to show your face? If she really mattered that much to me, I wouldn’t have ended things on bad terms.
Breaking up was your ego.
Recognizing yourself as being unhappy now is your ego.
And telling all these affectionate male respondents what they want to hear is also your ego.
Thinking you can get an absolution from this Q&A site and then use it as an excuse to support that woman would be the greatest sin of all.
Just my opinion: put a condom on your ego, too.
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To begin with, we didn’t part on bad terms.
I think you’re misunderstanding what “deep” means. If the bond is truly deep, even after several years, you can reach out and they’ll be willing to meet you that very day.
Besides, how would you know whether they’re unhappy? I mean, the person you had a falling-out with…
You are talking about a former romantic partner, right?
If you had a falling-out with a woman from a dating club, that would be pretty unusual.
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Don’t let ideas like “being loving” bias your judgment.
Personally, I’d leave them alone. Regardless of how the relationship ended, I’m not the type to get involved when they haven’t even asked for help.
You’re not some foolish college girl—you’re a grown adult. Why not think it through and make your own decision?
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