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Feb 22, 2023 19:15
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The women I meet through Universe Club are consistently wonderful, and I always enjoy having meals with them. However, even when things progress, perhaps I’ve just had bad luck, but many of them are what you might call “frozen tuna”…
They invite me to meet again and say they’d love to continue, but I’m finding it hard to stay motivated (;゚ロ゚) Does anyone have any recommended ways to “thaw” them out?
6 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you doubled the allowance, she might come around.
Personally, I’d look for another woman rather than double it.
I once offered a very sexy woman, but if someone’s too sexual, I actually find it harder to get excited, so finding the right balance is tricky(笑)
Sometimes time solves the problem. With younger women, I’ve had experiences where they started living with their boyfriend and became more sexually adventurous after having sex all the time. It depends on the person, though.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It might be best for you to leave the service.
The proportion of “tuna” women may be less than 1%. The odds of running into one that high…
Exactly.
Ideally, the only women who act like “tuna” should be the kind who would be immediately banned for other reasons anyway.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
In my experience, a “starfish” doesn’t change much, whether you try to warm her up or train her.
I think you’d be better off meeting someone new. A woman who’s sexually adventurous will be that way from the first time.
Other
I’m not sure how to thaw her out, but I think the best approach is for you to become so wonderful in every way that she can’t remain completely passive.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Rather than being an idiot, I thought he was simply being disrespectful toward women.
That said, if you want to meet women who aren’t, as the questioner puts it, “starfish,” why not offer to meet an adult-film actress or someone who works in the nightlife industry?
Adult-film actresses aside, women in nightlife jobs tend to receive fewer offers, so they might appreciate it.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never met anyone like that.
Maybe the person asking simply has poor taste in women.
I don’t know the answer since I’ve never encountered one, but why not offer a generous allowance—enough to make her feel she can’t afford to let you go? I think that’s the easiest approach and doesn’t require any special skills or ingenuity.