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Feb 20, 2023 20:31
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Even when things are going well, I get bored after having an adult relationship (intimate) four or five times at most. I’m constantly making offers to new women I find appealing. Every morning, the first thing I do is check out new women.
I’m starting to wonder if there’s something wrong with me. What kind of doctor should I see for a diagnosis?
I’m not rich, so I might end up going bankrupt.
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Other
I think you should make earning more money your top priority. Once you’re busy, you may even be able to cut back on the offers you accept. Come back once you have more free time and money.
Marika
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
When I first joined, I was having fun too and sent out lots of offers.
You only live once, so why not see how far you can take it?
You might meet a woman who never gets boring. Or you may simply continue making offers whenever you get bored—I think that’s fine too.
フラーレン
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 明け方に低頻度で浮上する回答者です
細く長く続けばいいなあ
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fullerene!
The fact that you’re wondering whether you might have a problem yourself is actually a hopeful sign.
With the next person who makes you an offer, why not practice taking things slowly and keeping it platonic for a while instead of becoming intimate right away?
Other
If that’s what you’re looking for, go to a brothel and find someone you like.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Welcome to Offer Club.
It seems like dating clubs are out of sight and far beyond the questioner’s reach…
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you get bored after four or five times and don’t have much money, going to a sex-service establishment is probably the best option for you.
Also, going to the hospital over something like that would just inconvenience the doctor.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think he’s a perfectly normal man. The solution is simply to increase his income.
Limit your offers to just a few women, and make them with the intention of keeping that woman happy for life—being willing to marry her, too.
Then, the more you meet, the more enjoyable it becomes.
👨 Male
Universe member
Haha, I think I have a problem too.
Since this is a dating club, I think you should enjoy the relationships more. You have the chance to date women you normally wouldn’t be able to, so it seems like a waste not to.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Go make more money and come back when you can afford it. You’re not sick—you’re just someone who doesn’t know their place.
Other
I’d be sad if someone got tired of me after just four or five meetings, but I feel like that’s probably due to my own shortcomings, so I suppose there’s nothing I can do about it.
I also think that in a dating club, men who are in a position to make offers whenever they want naturally do so. That makes me feel a sense of urgency—I need to always understand where I stand.
There are probably plenty of women more wonderful than me, so I think about what I have that no one else does and what I can do to make someone want to keep seeing me. Maybe that’s what motivates me to keep working on myself, both inside and out?!
So I don’t think it’s an illness or anything.
Other
Wouldn’t declaring bankruptcy and quitting solve the problem?
The quickest solution would be to talk to your family. That might snap you out of it and help you realize it isn’t an illness.
You might still need to see a psychiatrist afterward, though…
That’s just my personal opinion.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
> Which department should I go to for a diagnosis?
You’re not seriously asking that, are you? Don’t be ridiculous.