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Hello. I truly respect how sincerely everyone answers questions here. I’ve learned a lot and gotten plenty of helpful ideas from your responses. I’m asking this because I’d like to gain even more insight.

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I’d love to hear how you interpret the star ratings (★) shown on women’s profiles. There are six women I’m interested in. Since I’m currently seeing two women and also need to consider my budget, I haven’t been able to make offers right away. Since I added them to my favorites, the number of stars on each woman’s profile has gradually increased, and now all six have five stars. I assume this reflects both their wonderful personalities and the high evaluations they’ve received from men. At the same time, I also feel it may indicate that they’ve been able to continue seeing men successfully after their dates. Is that an accurate way to interpret it? If so, I imagine that when I do make an offer, I’ll need to present reasonably appealing terms and conduct myself in a way that makes a good impression. Looking back, I feel that by waiting so long to make an offer, I may have made it harder for myself to establish a relationship than it would have been when they had fewer stars. Even so, I’m thinking of making an offer. But I have one more question. Does the number of stars—especially three or more—affect whether you decide to make an offer? Does it also affect your mindset or expectations when going on a date? I’d appreciate hearing your thoughts. Thank you.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Women with lots of stars tend to receive good feedback after their first meeting, so their rating goes up. In other words, they’re women who have received multiple offers and earned high ratings from their first dates. Many of them are already seeing a papa, so if you want to continue seeing her, you’ll need to offer something that sets you apart from the other papas. I don’t think the fact that her rating goes up midway necessarily makes it harder to date her. Women who receive lots of offers can choose which papa they want after getting the offers, and they can cut off the ones with unfavorable terms afterward. My monthly partner is a woman with a high rating, which means she chose me.
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フラーレン
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細く長く続けばいいなあ
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
This is Fullerene! The ★ ratings can certainly be a way to gauge the other person’s situation, but more than that, they’re also a way to check your own motivation. When I’m hesitant about making an offer, I think: More stars → “There’ll be too much competition, so I’ll pass.” Fewer stars → “They probably won’t be easy to deal with, so I’ll pass.” In the end, it becomes a way to reassess how seriously I really feel about this person. Hope that helps.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve also done my own analysis of the star ratings. There’s no doubt that a five-star rating means she’s received high evaluations from her matches. However, if she hasn’t left the club, it could also mean that she still hasn’t met someone she’s truly satisfied with. Moreover, getting five stars requires at least four high ratings. That suggests she may have a lot of competition—in other words, she may also be asking for a higher allowance. I also personally believe that how easy it is to receive high ratings varies depending on the relationship type. I checked the women in Tokyo who are Platinum level or below. Among Type B women, about one in ten had five stars, while among Type C women, it was about one in five or six. I assume this is because many male members give a high rating as long as the relationship leads to an adult relationship (intimate). As for me, the number of star ratings doesn’t really affect whether I make an offer. I’m satisfied with the women I’m currently seeing, so if I were to make an offer now, what matters most is simply whether I find someone interesting. My attitude is always the same when I go on a date, regardless of the woman. Needless to say, I give every woman the same allowance.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
That’s more or less the right way to look at it. Also, if she’s still being shown to members, it may mean she hasn’t found a truly satisfactory arrangement yet. She may still be continuing with someone, but perhaps the number of meetings, allowance, or chemistry isn’t quite meeting her expectations. You still have a chance of being chosen. Around three to six months after a woman joins, the initial wave of offers has usually settled down, making it easier to have more open, personal conversations. During the first month or two, when offers are flooding in, it can be difficult to meet repeatedly. In the first place, unless you’re the man who made the initial offer, she may not even be able to keep track of who’s who. For that reason, I think just after she joins—when you could become her first date—or around the six-month or one-year mark can be good timing.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Women rated four or five stars have a lot of competition. If you want them to choose you, you need to offer a generous allowance. The allowance amount doesn’t matter to me, but I only continue seeing women I can have exclusively, so I only made offers to three-star women.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
> I understand that this is the result of not only the woman being a wonderful person, but also receiving highly positive ratings from men. I don’t know what her personality is like, but I think it’s because she has received multiple above-average ratings from men. For more information about the rating system, you may want to refer to this article: https://universe-club.jp/information/64462/ > On the other hand, I also feel that this means she has been able to maintain successful relationships with men after going on dates. I don’t think the number of stars has anything to do with whether a relationship continues. > Is this way of understanding it correct? I don’t know whether it’s correct, but this is how I see it, as explained in my answer. > If that’s the case, then I suppose that when making an offer, I’d also need to make sure my terms, behavior, and the way I conduct myself leave a favorable impression. Regardless of the number of stars, I think you should always try to make a good impression on anyone you meet. Since this is a relationship between people, isn’t it only natural to be as pleasant as possible? I really couldn’t understand the idea of linking that to the number of stars. > Does having three or more stars affect whether you decide to make an offer? Does it affect your attitude when going on a date? In my case, it doesn’t affect me at all.
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