I ended things with a papa (a male supporter) I’d been unsure about continuing with.
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He would have sex for three hours, then ask for a second round after only a 10-minute break. He wouldn’t wear a condom and would make me take emergency contraception. He would demand sex even when I was on my period.
The allowance was 70,000 yen, which was a lot for me, so I had been considering continuing, but I ended the arrangement.
I don’t have any other papas, so things have become financially difficult, but I did the right thing, didn’t I?
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The morning-after pill can really mess up your body, and the nausea is awful… I couldn’t do it. If men have the money, they should get a vasectomy instead. Though I wouldn’t trust them, since some people lie about having had one.
The longer you have unprotected sex, the higher the risk of pregnancy.
If it were me, I’d end the relationship.
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You won’t know whether it was the right decision until much later.
If you meet a better man from here on, you’ll feel that breaking up was the right choice. If you only meet worse men, you may feel that breaking up was a mistake.
But you’ve already ended things, so there’s no point dwelling on whether it was the right choice now.
I think it’s best to move forward believing that it was.
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He wants 30 minutes of sex, then a two-hour break, followed by a second round—the exact opposite of what you’re looking for.
Only your future actions can determine whether you made the right choice.
Since you’re struggling financially with your papas becoming scarce, focus your energy on getting new offers! Update your profile with thoughtful comments, upload photos, send messages saying “You’re lovely” along with a comment—do everything you can!
If you’re going to do it, you might as well enjoy it! If you’re not having fun, good luck won’t come your way either.
Don’t dwell on the past. Start fresh, approach things with a new mindset, and give it another try!
Wishing you a wonderful connection!
Sorry for the irresponsible personal opinion.
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Of course—that’s the right answer.
If it’s only once, asking here is fine. But just this once, okay? Tomorrow, try walking with slightly longer strides.
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I think the way that papa treated you was pretty awful. If the same thing had happened to one of your friends, wouldn’t you think, “That’s terrible”?
I think you did the right thing by ending things.
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He’s a terrible papa (a male supporter) if you need 15万円 per pay-per-meeting arrangement. If you have someone else, you were right to drop him.
However, if you’re being hounded by consumer-finance loans or unpaid host-club bills, then ending things was a mistake.
If it’s not that serious, look ahead and move on.
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If you want to break up, then just break up.
I don’t think you need to ask everyone about it. If most people here said, “It would be a waste to break up,” would you plan to get back together? lol
In that case, just for fun, I’ll say this: “It would be a shame to break up. However, I don’t think you should take morning-after pills that weren’t prescribed to you, so you should get a prescription for low-dose birth control pills and continue the relationship.”
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