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Feb 8, 2023 06:52
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Honestly, it made me waver, because right now I feel like I have nothing going for me.
But do recruiters say things like that to everyone?
Sorry if I’ve put anyone in a bad mood first thing in the morning with a question about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I’m not sure what kind of scouting this is, but scouting is a business, after all.
They don’t care what happens to the people they recruit. What matters is how many people they can scout and bring in, so they’ll say whatever it takes.
It’s probably not easy to get people to fall for a scout, right? Maybe only one in a hundred, if that. So they probably come on really strong with anyone they think might be interested. That would be the logical assumption.
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When I drive my daughter to and from school, my wife chirps, “Discrimination, dis-crim-i-na-tion, dis-crim-i-na-tion~.”
When I make food for the kids and eat with them right away, she berates me—just when I thought she’d praise me for doing housework—saying, “I haven’t eaten yet,” and “Having you around irritates me. Stay away.” Even I, Paper Airplane, who gets kicked away and insulted whenever I approach my wife, can still enjoy club activities without wanting for anything, to the point that I’m able to stay married.
No matter how unattractive someone is, they can get married as long as they find a partner.
Everyone has different tastes, so scouts are expected to approach one person after another, even if it’s a long shot.
And there’s also a possibility that someone may transform into one of the top 70% or so.
It’s important to think positively, psychologically speaking.
If you think about everything positively, similar events will begin to appear. The more you rejoice, the more fortunate things will happen, creating a virtuous cycle.
If you grumble and complain, you’ll only keep attracting more things to grumble and complain about.
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Good morning.
I don’t know anything about you or what you look like, since we’ve never met, so maybe you really are exceptionally beautiful and the scout was telling you the absolute truth.
That said, I feel like someone who’s truly that beautiful might not be approached in the first place. People would naturally come to them anyway, so they probably wouldn’t have much interest in it.
So from the scout’s perspective, I imagine they’re simply good at approaching people who seem likely to be receptive.
This is just my personal opinion—I’m not a scout or anything. I’m sorry if I upset you.
Still, you could always see it as a chance connection and give it a try.