I caught the attention of a man I met (a papa), and we started seeing each other. However, we’d only known each other for a week when he suddenly started getting very close, which made me think, “Whoa, this is a bit much…” So I tried to gently communicate that in a softened way, and he replied, “Thank you for everything,” and ended things.
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I understand that it is what it is, but he has now blocked me.
He sent me “Thank you for everything” on LINE, and I immediately replied, “Thank you, too.” After a week, there was still no read receipt, so I thought maybe he had blocked me. But when I checked, I wasn’t blocked yet, so I assumed he had simply deleted the message without opening it. However, when I checked again earlier, I found that I had been blocked.
Someone might say, “If you were okay with ending things, why do you care about being blocked by him?” And I suppose that’s fair… lol
What I’d like to ask everyone is this:
I would understand if I had said something that upset him and he immediately blocked me with a “Okay, goodbye!” kind of attitude.
Or if I had kept contacting him and he blocked me, that would make sense too.
But I replied, “Thank you, too,” and accepted the ending without any fuss. I haven’t contacted him since, so why block me now, two weeks after things ended?
It’s bothering me for some reason. lol
I’d really appreciate it if you kind people could share your thoughts.
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Let’s look on the bright side.
They might have kept pushing to get closer and become even more persistent. They might have made a scene about not wanting to break up, or even turned into a stalker.
But they blocked you first, so that’s a relief. Thank goodness.
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The two-week delay is a mystery… haha.
Maybe they were waiting, hoping you’d apologize and say, “I’m sorry—I do miss you after all”?
Either way, it sounds like you just weren’t a good match, so I think it’s best to leave it at that and not worry about it.
That aside, being able to end things with a simple “thank you” instead of leaving them unresolved really is nice.
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It’s not “blacklisted” or anything—you simply ended the relationship.
Some people block you, while others just leave things alone.
Some look back on it, while others never look back again.
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I think a papa (a male supporter) who takes the time to message you, “Thank you for everything,” is kind, and may have blocked you to help both of you move on. I’d like to believe that.
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They probably just didn’t feel like opening a LINE chat from someone they were already done with, so they left it alone.
Then they decided to clear the red notification badges from their chat list, took care of it, and blocked you while they were at it.
I’m the same way. I’ll leave ads and non-urgent messages sitting there for a week or even longer, then deal with them all at once when I’m in the mood.
Even at work, I’ll ignore unrelated emails—like condolence notices that I don’t really need to know about—and open and sort them all into folders when I feel like it.
I think they simply separated what needed to be done now from what didn’t, and acted accordingly.
Well, I suppose it means that once things were over, you became that unimportant to them. Like how it’s hard to remember things you got rid of during a decluttering spree—you’d become that insignificant in their life.
That’s just my personal opinion.
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