I just signed up, and I’m overwhelmed by the sheer number of women who show up in the search results. How do you experienced members go about finding someone?
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My eyes are starting to hurt from looking at all of them, haha.
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Search by narrowing it down to the features you prefer.
Looking through every profile is a waste of time—and bad for your eyes.
If you still can’t find anyone, try looking for someone who doesn’t seem overly focused on money.
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If I like someone’s face photo, I check out their profile and videos.
I usually keep around 10 people in my favorites and choose from among them when I’m ready to make an offer.
That’s how I do it.
It’s also convenient to use the search function—for example, filtering for a C cup or larger, or a height under 170 cm.
But if your eyes are getting strained in your 40s, you must be pretty worn out in various ways.
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Now that there are more search filters, it’s become much easier to find women I’m into.
For me, I start by browsing lots of profiles and adding women to my favorites, mainly based on their looks and figure.
Then I carefully review the profiles and videos of the women I’ve favorited.
After that, I prioritize them and send offers.
That’s basically how I do it.
I’m currently settled with my monthly arrangement, so I’m not looking right now. But if we part ways, I’ll do the same thing again.
It’s an enjoyable process, though.
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Haha（笑）
> My eyes are starting to hurt from all the flashing（笑）
I know exactly what you mean.
That’s because your eyes are bloodshot（笑）
Don’t get ahead of yourself—just take it easy and observe calmly.
In my case, things started with me turning down offers. The registered women would say some pretty outrageous things, and I realized I couldn’t trust my own judgment at all after suspecting some of them of misrepresenting their relationship type. So I asked the club to handle the screening.
The club is quick when it comes to screening.
Sales come first! You might even wonder whether they really thought things through.
Especially when she showed up with a ribbon in her hair, thick-soled shoes, and an outfit that looked like it might reveal her underwear, I’ll never forget thinking, “Was this a mistake?”
Who could have predicted that it would turn into a five-year relationship, with me being incredibly popular, and no sign of it ending?
That’s only in hindsight, of course, but the club really does have a good eye（笑）
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I’m Kosaka, a staff member, and I’ll answer as well!
For starters, I think the best thing to do is ask your assigned staff member to recommend some women. I sometimes send recommendations to male members before they even ask, but I’m always happy when someone asks, “Do you have anyone like this?”
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At your age, you’ve probably started to get a sense of the kind of vibe and personality you’re compatible with, haven’t you?
For both men and women, you gradually come to understand which types you naturally open up to—whether they’re dominant, laid-back, or somewhere in between—regardless of whether they’re the opposite or same sex.
Start by narrowing down your choices based on appearance, then use videos to pick up on compatibility through the way they speak and their facial expressions. That can help you narrow things down considerably.
If you hone that kind of judgment through your experiences with women, as well as your interactions with people in general, I think you’ll be able to connect more naturally and smoothly.
At the same time, unless you narrow things down that carefully, you won’t be able to convey that level of genuine interest to the woman you’re meeting.
Most men are making offers because they already like the woman, so unless you really stand out in how much you like her, she probably won’t notice much of a difference. That’s why it’s important to truly have confidence in your judgment. If a man becomes completely captivated, women are happy too—so work on developing the eye to find someone who can inspire that kind of feeling.
If you casually assume there will always be someone else next, women will see right through you.
With a club, you can make an offer right away, so thinking that you’ll figure things out after meeting her, depending on how she is, is a little too late. First impressions are that important—it’s almost a short, winner-takes-all game. How accurately you can aim for a “strike” when choosing someone before making an offer is also important for keeping your motivation high.
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Contact the staff and tell them something like:
“I’d like someone with long (or short) hair,
tall (or short),
slim (or curvy),
with a good personality rather than just good looks (or someone whose appearance matters more than her personality),
and around ___ to ___ years old.”
They’ll pick out a few women who match your preferences.
For starters, I think you should go on dates with those women.
As you date, you’ll gradually figure out what your preferences really are—for example, that you’d prefer someone a little more like this or that. Once you get better at identifying the kind of woman you like, you’ll be able to search on your own, and the profiles won’t all seem so confusing anymore.
That’s probably the best way to go about it.
If you feel you can’t figure it out from just one person, you can also ask the staff each time, “Do you have anyone like this?”
I wrote this assuming you’re in the Black class, but depending on the class, you may have to search for someone yourself.
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Everyone has their own way of looking, but I remember browsing pretty diligently every day when I first signed up.
As you go through offers and arrangements, I think you gradually develop a style that works for you.
Now that it’s been over two years since I signed up, I only check it about once a month, if that.
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