I want to quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), cut ties with people from the nightlife scene, and start living my life properly again.
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I’ve finally realized that my social circle isn’t normal. I keep meeting people connected to the yakuza and ending up surrounded by bad people.
It may sound strange to say this about myself, but I think I come across as a decent, respectable person. Inside, though, I’m different.
The first thing I did was apologize to my parents.
And to everyone on this forum, I’m truly sorry for asking so many strange questions.
I don’t think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) itself is bad—it’s just that you’re surrounding yourself with the wrong people. So I think you should cut ties with those bad influences and do papa-katsu with a decent, reliable papa (a male supporter) here instead.
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That’s a good question.
What’s considered reasonable?
What makes a question inappropriate?
It’s difficult to say, isn’t it?
I sometimes wonder whether my own answers are truly reasonable, too. Still, I try to answer based on what I believe would be best, together with what I actually put into practice.
I think it’s best to set your own ideals and approach things by balancing them with the law, social norms, and morality. Whether that’s truly right in the absolute sense, I can’t say, but I believe it’s a practical way to navigate life.
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Making a decision and seeing it through is never easy, is it?
If you made the decision yourself and have already apologized to your family, I imagine you must be truly prepared to follow through. Keep doing your best.
I can’t say what makes a life respectable or otherwise, but I hope you live without regrets. You’re still young, so enjoy life!
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