Are men who offer an allowance of ¥50,000 just painfully deluded old guys who still think they’re attractive?
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I’m approached more often by men offering around ¥100,000 than by men offering ¥50,000, but my impression is that most of the ¥50,000 guys are very self-centered. No matter how nice they try to act, they can’t hide how much they love themselves, and they’re nowhere near as appealing as the relaxed, gentlemanly men who offer ¥100,000 or more.
It’s like they’re saying, “I’m attractive because I can date a woman for ¥50,000, right?”
What is this dried-up, painfully mediocre old guy even talking about? lol
Do they realize how pathetic they look?
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I think this every time, but if you’re satisfied with receiving 100, isn’t that enough for you?
Why do you keep asking questions about allowances?
I’m simply curious.
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I’m honestly not having any trouble finding women willing to see me for an allowance of 50.
I’ve also had a few women tell me they wanted 80, so I know there are women who receive around 100.
Compared with the women I usually see for an allowance of 50, I didn’t feel this particular woman was worth paying more for, so I decided not to pursue an arrangement with her.
If she were an extremely famous celebrity, 1,000 for a single night would be nothing unusual. I think it largely comes down to whether you feel the other person is worth it.
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There’s no rule saying every papa has to offer a large amount. Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t just about money.
Whether it’s 3, 5, or 10, be a woman with a generous heart.
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Become the kind of amazing woman that no one would dare offer an allowance of 5.
The kind of woman who makes them think, “I’d be embarrassed to offer her just 5. How much would it take for her to meet me?”
Good luck.
Marika
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Good for you—you’re getting a generous allowance. Enjoy it while it lasts, and keep at it.
You seem to have a nasty personality, so in about ten years, you’ll probably turn into a painfully embarrassing older woman.
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Are you aware that by fixating solely on the fact that they’re in a pay-per-meeting relationship for ¥50,000, while ignoring the reality that people can have all kinds of relationships, you’re only revealing how narrow—and painfully so—your perspective is?
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You’re missing out by doing that.
When I first met my current monthly papa, we started with a pay-per-meeting allowance of 50,000 yen. It wasn’t an amount he offered—instead, when we first discussed the allowance, he asked me what I wanted. I didn’t know how to answer, so I gathered up my courage and said, “I’d be happy with around 50,000 yen…”
After a while, he really came to like me, and we moved to a monthly arrangement. He even gave me an additional allowance because he didn’t want me seeing anyone else.
So I don’t think someone who initially offers 50,000 yen is necessarily short on money, overly self-important, or stingy.
I’ve also had someone who paid 100,000 yen per meeting, but I preferred my current papa, so I ended things with the 100,000-yen papa. In the end, I developed a good relationship with my current papa, and my allowance increased too.
Rather than judging someone based only on the immediate allowance, I recommend taking the time to observe their personality, how they treat you, and whether you’re compatible.
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I’m Zuiki, a male member who loves using an ultra-fine-point permanent marker to touch up his gray hair. It’s dangerous, so kids, please don’t try this at home.
That said, my annual income is in the 10-million-yen range, so by Universe Club standards, I’d probably be classified as an extremely low-paying papa. Even so, I’ve met a wonderful woman here and get to enjoy a very happy papa-katsu life. I’m grateful.
But as a rather modest papa, there’s no way I can offer an allowance of ¥100,000 per pay-per-meeting date. Also, unlike those relaxed, well-off gentleman papas, I’m a poor, busy papa with little free time, so I value time efficiency even more than cost performance.
What I dislike most is a mismatch. You wouldn’t want to date a deluded, painfully dried-up, self-centered old guy who’s in love with himself, like me, would you? I wouldn’t want to go on a date knowing I was being viewed that way, either.
As a solution, if you consider yourself a ¥100,000-per-meeting woman, it would help both sides avoid unpleasant situations if you wrote something like this in the “What monthly support amount do you hope for?” section of your papa-katsu interview:
“I’m a 100-level woman. I’d like around 10 dates a month, with a total allowance of 1,000,000 yen. Please do not make offers below 900,000 yen.”
If you disclose your self-assessed market value in advance, it can help prevent mismatches. I sincerely hope you’ll consider it.
Oh, and by the way, I’m not in the pay-per-meeting camp—I’m in the monthly arrangement camp, haha.
Just my humble personal opinion.
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Both the people who give allowances and those who receive them are
> birds of a feather.
They’re both pretty pathetic.
The real essence of papa-katsu lies not just in recognizing that, but in transcending it. Or so I believe…
Because for both men and women, it’s a world where any wish can come true—depending on the person, of course…
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My personal impression of 50,000-yen papas is less that they were “mostly self-centered,” as the questioner felt, and more that they simply didn’t leave much of an impression.
They were neither good nor bad—just average. In exchange for not having any weird requests or being possessive, they also lacked the kind of charm that made me think, “I don’t want to lose this papa!”
So, at least in my experience, I feel that a higher allowance is more likely to leave an impression than a lower one.
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Haha（笑） You’re pretty bold too（笑）
I think that’s a good thing. When you’re young, you have to be a little bold（笑）
That’s exactly how the woman I’m currently seeing was when we started our allowance-based relationship. I remember thinking that, with an attitude like that, even her boyfriend probably wouldn’t take her seriously.
But don’t worry. After gaining various experiences, people gradually become more easygoing. After about five years in a relationship, she’ll start to become a lovely, mature woman.
And this is beside the point, but once she’s past menopause, she’ll become completely round and cuddly（笑）
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Yeah, yeah, I get it, I get it.
You don’t like old guys who give you a ¥50,000 allowance, right? Yeah, yeah.
Papa-katsu girls are, when you get right down to it, either unable to live a satisfying life without getting money from men, or perverts who want to date lots of different men. In society’s eyes, they’re all weirdos with no self-restraint, so what’s the point of ranking yourselves above one another??
You’re all birds of a feather! You’re all living in the same hole.
I strongly agree that people say the question box has a pretty low level of civility.
Lowering the civility of the respondents is Potassium’s job, so please forgive me! Sorry, everyone.
The question box is a place where people with low civility lower the bar even further ☆
It’s like a pit toilet with more and more piles stacked on top!
I wish it could’ve been a flush toilet~
To turn it into a flush toilet,
perhaps we should stop displaying posts immediately.
Oops, that was a pretty filthy opinion.
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