Tips Jan 27, 2023 14:25

I had plans to meet my papa (a male supporter), but he canceled on me at the last minute, saying he wasn’t feeling well. If this had only happened once, I could let it slide—but this is the second time. The first time, he also said he wasn’t feeling well (-᷅_-᷄). I haven’t replied to him yet. How should I respond so he gets the message that I’m a little upset?

👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t get angry when someone cancels at the last minute. If they’re feeling unwell, it can’t be helped. You’re upset because you don’t trust him. I couldn’t date someone I suspected of being dishonest.
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> How should I reply so that it comes across like I’m a little annoyed? First of all, why do you want to make it clear that you’re angry? Do you think getting angry will stop them from canceling at the last minute? There’s no need to get angry in the first place. I think it’s important to recognize that this is simply the kind of person they are. Then you can decide whether you still want to continue seeing someone like that. Since you’re angry this time, I’m guessing you probably won’t be seeing them again...
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Canceling at the last minute means he’s really taking you for granted. Why not just send a casual “Take care~♪” and leave it at that? It’s not worth wasting your energy getting angry at a papa (a male supporter) like this. Move on and look for the next one.
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Haha, that’s too bad. You could just send something like: “Sorry we couldn’t meet. I hope you feel better soon. I’d love to see you again once you’re feeling better.”
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