Last week, a 60-year-old gentleman kissed me. It was quite deep.
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I was talking to him about work, and what was meant to be a comforting hug somehow led to a kiss. After that, I accepted his kisses several times.
Do you think things will eventually go all the way with him?
I’m single, and he’s married.
I don’t understand why you’re asking an anonymous Q&A site to decide something that’s ultimately up to you.
The phrase “it’ll end up going all the way” also comes across as somewhat leaving the decision to someone else.
Don’t frame it as “it’ll happen.” Decide for yourself whether you will or won’t—and whether you want to or don’t want to.
Please don’t ask questions that are meaningless in the first place.
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Female member “Potassium” here.
Isn’t that for you, the person asking, to decide?
If things went that way because he got carried away after drinking, he might try to take things further the next time you drink together. But the important question is: what do you want?
I don’t know whether you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but even if you have a physical relationship for free and continue going on dates without directly asking for anything, you might occasionally end up with a papa-katsu-like arrangement where he buys you lots of appliances or gives you an allowance without you even asking, lol.
You create your own options, and you’re also the one responsible for choosing among them.
That’s just my opinion.
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Haha, right? Who knows how it’ll turn out? It sounds fun, though（笑）
If you think it’s okay, go for it. If not, just politely decline.
Either way, I think it’s fine as long as it benefits both of you. Make your decision carefully, and have fun!
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