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Jan 20, 2023 00:36
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People often tell me that, and I take it as a compliment—at least, I assume that’s what they mean.
Since they specifically say “Ebisu,” I got curious and wanted to ask.
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What does it mean, I wonder? Just guessing, but maybe something along the lines of:
Not as flashy as a Minato-ku girl, but a little more polished or stylish than your average office lady?
They say they’ve been told that by various people, but I don’t feel like it’s a phrase people use very often.
Unless you ask the person who said it, it’s hard to know—everyone has their own sense of how they label people.
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Instead of asking here, just Google “women from Ebisu.” The line “Ebisu was the neighborhood chosen by 28-year-old office ladies in battle-ready mode” made me laugh a little, lol.
I don’t think it’s meant negatively. It suggests someone who’s competent at work and stylish, but also has a tolerance for slightly old-man-ish things, like sitting around picking at a chicken hot pot. Shibuya feels a little too young, but the neighboring Ebisu is a better fit. It has a similar vibe to Omotesando or Azabu-Juban. The southeastern side of the Yamanote Line, around Tokyo, Yurakucho, and Ginza, gives off an air of power. Futako-Tamagawa and Jiyugaoka feel a little too obviously upscale. Nakano and Koenji have an intense subculture vibe. Ebisu sits somewhere among all that.
That said, I’m not sure any particular area is inherently better or worse. There are women who suit Shinjuku, women who fit Ueno-Okachimachi, women who are more Ikebukuro types, and so on. I wouldn’t say it to their faces, though. It’s not really about whether being labeled is good or bad—it depends on how you respond afterward.
If I were on the receiving end, I’d probably get annoyed the moment someone put a label on me. Whether it’s a good label or a bad one doesn’t matter—don’t arbitrarily categorize me when you barely know me. That’s probably how most people would feel. So normally, you keep it to yourself. The only time you say it is when you’re using it as an opening to provoke an exaggerated reaction and get to know the other person more deeply. Anyone who labels people without even having that kind of strategy is just that kind of person, lol.
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The kind of woman you’d expect to see in Ebisu… at least, that’s my impression:
・Around 26–35
・A capable office worker—not quite a career woman, but secretly thinking, “I’d love to quit and get married soon.”
・Polished business-casual style
Maybe a sleeveless knit with a lightweight cardigan—outfits that subtly appeal to men without being too obvious
・Her bag isn’t quite Minato-ku-girl level, but it’s a simple designer brand that doesn’t immediately look flashy
Something like CELINE or LOEWE—maybe a little reward she bought for herself with her bonus
・Social and has lots of friends, both male and female
She’s perfectly happy going to an izakaya, but also enjoys stylish restaurants
On a normal day, she stops by the supermarket after work and cooks for herself
That’s just my totally subjective impression, though(笑)