Reading the answers here, I often see female respondents talking about their papa’s annual income, business ventures, and so on.
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Do you really have those kinds of conversations with women?
I want to relax and get away from reality, so I never give off a work-mode vibe.
I do pay attention to things like looking clean and presentable, being considerate, and planning dates they’ll enjoy, but would I be more attractive if I showed more of my hardworking, business-minded side?
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When my papa (male supporter) wants to talk, I listen; when he doesn’t, I don’t try to force it out of him.
I don’t butt in and try to pry into his work, but it naturally comes up in our everyday conversations.
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I generally don’t talk about work.
Most of it is only understandable to people in the same line of work, so in the end, I feel like it’s pointless.
Since he’s a man registered with a club, women already know he has a reasonably good income or assets.
So if you’re in an adult relationship (intimate) with women, you’ll be more popular for being good in bed than for being good at your job.
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I also talk about work with the papa (male supporter) I’m currently seeing.
Since I work too, we often talk about each other’s jobs and share things like, “This happened recently.” I’m genuinely interested in his work and tend to ask lots of questions, so he sometimes tells me about it as well.
There are stories and experiences I’d never come across or hear about in my everyday life, so I really respect papas who are willing to share those things with me.
Of course, every woman is different, so not everyone may feel the same way.
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It does come up sometimes.
As you continue seeing each other, what kind of work you do will usually come up in conversation. Even if you’re not in work mode, most of us spend a large part of our lives working, so it’s an easy topic to talk about.
I’ve never specifically said how much I earn, but we might talk about things like our hometown tax donation limits, so it would be pretty easy to work it out from there.
As long as you’re hung up on silly things like whether you’re popular with women, you probably won’t earn their respect anytime soon（笑).
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When you’ve been seeing someone deeply and for a long time, you naturally end up talking about all kinds of things. It’s not about trying too hard to show off what a capable man you are.
If you’re at the point where you have to think, “What should I talk about?” then I don’t think you need to say anything. If you decide it’ll make you more attractive, then maybe you can—but that’s up to you.
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Let’s talk about work.
Working together, getting help, receiving advice, starting a new business together…
Some people turn what they want to do into a job, while others see it as a way to make money. Everyone’s different.
By the way, my wife calls me “unemployed” and brushes me off with, “Must be nice—your job is basically your hobby.”
P.S. A papa can also be an old guy who no longer needs to work—because he’s already made enough for the future—and does it to spend what he has.
If you have a work mode that makes you want to escape reality, that means you’re still young.
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