I’d like to know the going rates for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in more detail.

It’s pretty similar to working at an onakura (masturbation club). Looking at the prices at an onakura I visited in the past, the one-hour “watching only” course was ¥15,000, plus ¥3,000 for touching bare breasts and ¥5,000 for deep kissing. Since the usual commission is around 50%, you’d probably earn about ¥10,000–¥15,000. That said, I think both you and your friend should consider applying for an onakura job rather than doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).

I’m not sure what you mean. It’s 0.5 because you agreed to an allowance of 0.5, isn’t it? If you want 1.0, just make it clear that 0.5 won’t work for you and only meet people who agree to 1.0. Rather than worrying about the going rate, I think you should negotiate with the other person for an allowance you’re comfortable with.

If it were me, based on what you described, I’d give her 5. Since it sounds like an option for when she’s on her period, 3 would probably be about standard. 0.5? Is that some kind of Twitter deal at an internet café?

I’m Potassium, a female member. Market rates? A sense of money? I don’t think it’s about either of those things. papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t a job, so there’s no minimum wage or set minimum amount. First of all, if you never discuss the allowance (amount) beforehand, you’re essentially leaving the price entirely up to the other person. It’s like going to an all-you-can-eat cake buffet and being told by the shop, “Please pay whatever you feel this place is worth.” How much would you pay? The cakes supposedly look and taste great, and there are even repeat customers. The cost of the ingredients isn’t much, but how much would you be willing to give as a token of appreciation? If we were to frame this particular situation as papa-katsu, then: - The ingredients: ¥0, since that’s the questioner themselves - Because she was cute: ¥2,000 as a token of appreciation - Because her personality was decent: another ¥2,000 - For the act itself: another ¥1,000 There weren’t really any “ingredients” in this case, after all. The man was the one deciding how to price everything. I suppose that’s just how things ended up. Doesn’t it seem strange when you look at it this way? There’s no general market rate for papa-katsu arrangements. You decide what you’re worth yourself. If you can’t set your terms and negotiate them, then no matter how skilled a pastry chef you are, you’ll always be operating at an emotional loss. Well, that’s assuming money is your top priority in papa-katsu. That’s just my personal opinion, though. Analogies are difficult.

LOL Are you talking about an under-the-table add-on at a JK refresh salon? If you don’t want to, you can simply say no. If you have no other prospects and can’t find another papa, then accept it if you feel it’s worth it. It’s up to you to decide. Having your nipples licked for an hour sounds like it would hurt afterward. They’d be doing something like at a breast pub, but for less money, so from the man’s perspective, it’s probably a pretty good deal.

There’s no such thing as a standard rate. Even the same woman might receive an allowance of 50,000 yen from one papa (a male supporter) and 100,000 yen from another. I think it’s your way of thinking that’s off. I was going to say, “If you prefer the amount to be set according to what you do, why not work at a sex club?” But even there, prices vary from one establishment to another for the same services, and even at the same place, each person may have a different commission rate.