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Jan 13, 2023 16:09
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s no need for the person asking the question—who receives a generous allowance—to feel confused about it.
Don’t you think it’s better to stop trying to one-up people who are genuinely struggling?
Other
I also answered your other question, but I think it’s pretty rare for someone to receive lots of offers and have every one of them be from people with strong quirks.
In my case, only about one in ten supporters offered ¥100,000 or more, and among the people I met through Universe Club, there was just one.
Looking back at offers from other clubs, I’d say roughly one in ten was from a high-paying papa.
That said, being a high-paying papa doesn’t necessarily mean the arrangement will continue. There were quite a few cases where we met a few times and then it ended.
In reality, it was more common for the first allowance to be average—such as dinner only—and for him to later become a high-paying papa once we moved to a monthly arrangement.
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At Universe, I’ve never met anyone who offered an allowance of 100,000 yen or more on a pay-per-meeting basis.
So it may be hard for the person asking the question to believe, but that’s simply my reality.
That said, my current papa (a male supporter) gives me a sufficient monthly allowance, so I feel sorry for women who don’t know whether their arrangement will continue even if they’re receiving 200,000 or 300,000 yen per meeting.
Doesn’t reading this make you a little irritated?
Your allowance isn’t a measure of your worth. It’s simply an agreement between you and the person who wants to be with you, and I think it’s rude for an outsider to question whether something between the two people involved is really true.
👨 Male
Universe member
As Mac mentioned before, I wondered whether she had a split tongue—or some other unusual physical trait that made her truly irreplaceable.
If she could just write something like, “I’m like this,” I could get a general idea（笑）. But from the text alone, it’s hard to say anything…
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I know there are some female members like that. You must be getting offers from all over the country, right?
As for what sets you apart, you probably have some kind of special charm that really shines. There are generous (well-paying) papas who are drawn to it and don’t mind spending—if anything, they throw out big offers from the start, as if they’re determined not to lose to their rivals.
There used to be a cat with a heart-shaped marking on its body that became popular online. I imagine you’re like that cat, with a heart-shaped mark somewhere you haven’t even noticed yourself.
That said, I should point out that you’re only popular in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so don’t get the wrong idea. That cat will probably stay popular forever, but for a young woman, it really only lasts for a limited time.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
There it is. That usually comes up whenever the allowance is mentioned, haha.
Who knows? Maybe it depends on whether she has something rare going for her, like being connected to the entertainment industry.
That said, one perfectly ordinary Gold woman once told me she wanted 10 because her previous papa had given her 10.
I felt negotiating over it wasn’t the right thing to do, so I turned her down, saying, “Sorry, I’m at 5.”
I guess it just comes down to luck.