I’m the one who asked the question in my previous post.

Thank you all so much for your answers! I’ve reached a conclusion. I finally came to my senses and realized that, in the end, it’s best to break up and listen to the advice of those with more life experience. I’ve always had a tendency to lose my composure and objectivity when it concerns me personally, so your responses saved me from getting hurt any further. The YouTube links were also very informative. I learned that even with choking, there’s a kind that’s genuinely painful and could make you feel like you’re going to die, while another kind can feel so good that it makes you tremble… Once again, I realized that amateurs shouldn’t casually get into BDSM. Still, the fact that the M partner could get hurt shows an extreme lack of affection and consideration. Also, when I contacted him today, I finally thought, “Wow, I really can’t do this anymore.” I told him we couldn’t meet because my period was about to start, and he said, “I want to rub your stomach for you.” But then, because I was late to our meeting due to a train delay, he brought up the penalty he had imposed on me at our previous meeting and immediately showed his true colors, saying that if I was on my period, I should just pay the penalty and go home. He scared me so much that I even felt there was something psychopathic about him. It’s not just this incident—thanks to everyone’s opinions, I’ve been able to completely move on. From now on, I’ll try to make use of my tendency to be overly accommodating through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and work toward becoming someone who can make both herself and her partner feel good while being treated with care. Thank you all so much. P.S. Is there any way to get an intimate video that was recorded without my permission deleted? I want to cut him off completely, but he’s threatening to share the video. I’m really scared.