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Jan 10, 2023 21:35
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You finally found a boyfriend you really like, yet you’re already thinking about when you’ll eventually break up—that feels very “modern girl” to me.
You should be able to just tell your papa (a male supporter) directly.
If it were me, I’d be happy to hear from him again, even after quite some time has passed.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If he’s a good papa, why not tell him you’ve gotten a boyfriend and keep seeing him?
Once you let go of a good papa, I feel like it’s really hard to find someone even better…
Other
At the most basic level, do you really need to break things off with your papa (a male supporter) in the first place?
Wouldn’t it be possible to stay connected through dinner only (no intimacy), or at least keep in touch on LINE?
No matter how you phrase it, once you’ve “broken things off,” restoring the relationship is extremely difficult. I think there’s a big difference between the relationship becoming completely nonexistent and even 0.1% of it remaining.
Thinking, “I’ll break up with my papa for now, then get back together with him if I break up with my boyfriend” is just too presumptuous.
If you’re going to break things off with your papa, you shouldn’t be considering getting back together later. If you’re already thinking about getting back together with your papa, break up with your boyfriend right now.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Just tell him exactly that.
You can reach out again when you’re ready to start seeing each other again. You can also stay in touch in the meantime, or meet up for dinner only (no allowance) to catch up and talk things over.
After that, it really depends on whether you’re one of your papa’s favorites.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m voting for Kazu!
I think it should be fine as long as you have the time and room for it.
That said, in my case, my schedule might fill up. Once I start seeing a new woman, it tends to go on and on（笑).
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m going abroad to study.
Other
Female member Potassium here.
Let’s try changing things up a little!
Okay, here’s a poem:
“Swift as the rapids,
Blocked by rocks in the river,
Though we may be parted,
I believe that in the end,
We will meet again.”
— Emperor Sutoku, *Hyaku-shu of Kyūan*
You could send something like that.
It gives off a bit of a romantic vibe, doesn’t it?
Surprise surprise.
Just my own theory.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
So, are you really expecting to get such a conveniently self-serving magic phrase for free?
Do you even have a brain?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s best to be honest and say it as it is.
If a partner told me that, I’d be receptive, and if I were open to seeing someone again when they got back in touch, I’d probably meet with them again.