I couldn’t help jumping in after reading the question two posts down, even though I’m not one of the original respondents.
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I also use both a papa-katsu site and Universe, but even if someone blocks you, their profile appears as “deleted member,” so there’s no way for the person who was blocked to know whether they actually left or simply blocked you. My message list is full of deleted members, but very few of them seem to have genuinely quit, so I think people block each other pretty casually. As the other respondent said, that’s just how sites are. If someone gets a better appointment with better terms after arranging one with me, I assume they’ll block me and move on. It goes both ways. If you don’t like that kind of thing, you should stick to clubs exclusively.
Since this wouldn’t be much of a question otherwise, I’ll tie one in: for those of you who use both sites and clubs, why do you choose to do both?
👤Asked byGuest👨GenderMale🎂40s👑Universe male member
When I talk to women I’ve met through salons, I often hear that they used dating apps without posting photos.
That made me realize that some women, fed up with how inefficient apps are, start considering a dating club and register with a salon where they don’t have to post a profile.
I tried using apps and websites to find women before they moved over to dating clubs, but it really made me appreciate how excellent the interviews at Universe Club and the salons are.
There are certainly women who haven’t yet made the move to dating clubs, but I eventually learned that most of them probably never will. Since then, I’ve pretty much left the apps and websites untouched.
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I only use the club and don’t combine it with anything else.
In my case, I’m older, so I assumed women wouldn’t be interested in me, which is why I stick to the club.
I think I use the site casually and affordably, simply enjoying meeting people.
Besides, I’m not at all confident in my ability to judge whom to approach myself, so I leave it to the professionals, telling them the kind of person I’m looking for.
My style suits enjoying a relationship with women they introduce to me.
Also, since dating clubs involve allowance-based relationships, I assumed they might feel rather superficial. But I’m grateful that, depending on the woman, that isn’t necessarily the case—we’ve been able to get along quite well.
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You don’t have to feel so restless… Opportunities to meet someone are everywhere. You’re just not noticing them and missing your chances.
Whether it’s a website or a club, you need to remember that you—including me—are wandering around in places this desperate…
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From a man’s perspective, clubs have fewer risks of last-minute cancellations or misleading profile photos, but you have to pay an offer fee.
Sites don’t charge an offer fee, but the question is whether you’ll actually meet anyone decent.
So, when I’d spent too much on offer fees through UC and was tight on money that month, but still wanted to meet someone, I sometimes used sites. I’d occasionally come across women registered with UC on those sites too, which made me wonder which route to contact them through…
I used both for a while, but eventually decided sites were just a waste of time, so I stuck with clubs after that.
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I quit using the site pretty quickly, so I can’t say from personal experience, but a friend who still uses both the site and the club seems to use them for different purposes:
Club
···A way to find a good papa (a male supporter) you can meet consistently
The downside is having to wait for offers
Site
···A way to find a papa when there are no club offers or when you happen to have a free day
The downside is that the terms are often less favorable
Now that the club has also opened lounges as part of its group, they seem to offer a convenient middle ground between the site and the club.
I visited a lounge the other day, and it was clean and the staff were very accommodating! I’d recommend it to anyone who feels the site isn’t quite for them.
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