The more controlling someone is, the more likely they are to cheat, right?
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I could understand it if they weren’t cheating at all, but people who are controlling are almost always cheating themselves, aren’t they? What do you think goes through their minds when they try to control their partner despite cheating themselves?
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I’ve been watching way too many dramas lately—and some of them are pretty old, lol.
In the drama *Don’t Call It Mystery*, there’s a scene where Sasaki Kuranosuke wonders whether he should kill these people first, because they might kill him.
Because he has “killing” as an option within himself, he assumes the other person might also be thinking about killing him.
I think cheating works the same way. People who cheat naturally assume that their partner also sees cheating as an option, so they try to prevent it by becoming controlling.
If you’re still getting along well and your relationship is going smoothly, you’re probably sitting somewhere around the provisional number-one spot for now. But since it’s only a “provisional number one,” that position is still precarious.
Both partners need to face each other and build trust. Once you become undisputed champions together, the cheating and possessiveness will disappear.
And if you lose the unification bout, well… just work hard toward your comeback.
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“I like you so much that I get possessive, so why are you being so cold when I love you this much?! Fine, then! I’ll cheat on you first!”
That’s what this lovesick sunflower was thinking :(›´ω`‹ ):
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I don’t think being overly controlling necessarily means someone will cheat.
I picture them more as difficult people who are self-centered, romance-obsessed, and constantly craving attention.
Since this is a dating club, it’s a little awkward when people talk as if cheating is inherently bad, though lol.
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Are you referring to the men from Universe?
I think that simply joining a service like this means they’re fully intending to cheat. And if a woman receives offers from 10 different men, isn’t that essentially the same as cheating 10 times?
People who are highly possessive may not actually be afraid of cheating so much as being betrayed.
There are also women who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) even though they have a boyfriend or are married…
I was registered with Universe when I was married too, so I can’t really judge anyone.
Aren’t we all in the same boat?
It’s probably best to assume that most men are generally prone to cheating or having their attention wander.
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Isn’t being controlling rooted in insecurity? I think it comes from having low self-esteem.
If you believe you’ll be chosen—that you’re the number one person for her—you wouldn’t even think about being controlling, regardless of whether you’re seeing other people yourself.
On the other hand, you might say, “Go ahead and choose from among lots of options. Feel free to see plenty of others—you’ll understand the differences and what’s good about me that way.”
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