If you’ve been seeing an A-type woman for a long time and built a relationship with her, is there any chance it could develop into an adult relationship (intimate)?
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I know people will probably say, “Just ask the PJ,” but I’d like to know what actually happens in practice.
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I chose A on the assumption that there wouldn’t be an adult relationship in the first place.
So unless the person asking is extremely wealthy, extremely good-looking, or extremely popular—someone who could win over young women even without papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—wouldn’t it be unlikely?
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It’s probably very unlikely, but once a relationship has been established, you never know what might happen, right?
Even if you think you’ve built a relationship, she may have opened up because he’s the kind of man who doesn’t try to initiate an adult relationship.
Well, I don’t really understand how Type A women think, haha.
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In terms of possibility, there definitely is one. I’ve had arrangements with Type A women develop into an adult relationship (intimate).
That said, I always maintained the stance of not making a move simply because someone was Type A.
After we’d gone out for dinner a few times, she brought it up herself, saying, “If you’re open to it, I’d like to take our relationship further...”
I think it’s best not to expect anything and simply let the other person decide.
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Not at all!
That’s not what this kind of relationship is supposed to be in the first place, so I think you may be making some assumptions.
I’ll answer based on my four years of experience.
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I think there are two types of Type A women.
If she’s closer to Type B than Type A, as Paper Airplane mentioned, things will move to a hotel fairly quickly.
Recently, I went to a hotel on our second date with a Type A woman who had been debating whether to become Type B.
If a woman believes there’s no way she would ever go to a hotel with a papa-katsu man, then no matter how friendly she may seem, it’s only an act.
Based on my experience with many women in these arrangements, I’ve come to the conclusion that if she doesn’t go to a hotel within the first two or three meetings, a relationship has already been established and it’s unlikely to happen later.
In other words, in your case, I’m afraid the chances of going to a hotel are quite low.
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It depends on the girl.
Depending on the girl—especially if she leans toward a B-type arrangement—she might go to a hotel fairly early on. I don’t think the length of the relationship really matters.
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It’s probably best to assume there’s basically no chance.
If you’ve been seeing each other for several years, you’ve always been generous with her allowance, and she seems satisfied with the arrangement, you could try asking her—while being prepared for rejection.
If I were a man, I’d ask like this:
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This is a little hard to bring up, but…
We’ve known each other for quite a while now, haven’t we?
As we’ve gotten to know each other better,
I know you only want dinner dates,
but I still find you attractive and wanted to ask…
How would you feel about it if I paid you ○○?
Of course, I want to respect your feelings,
so please think it over and let me know next time we meet.
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Please don’t do anything selfish, like booking a hotel before even asking.
Also, if you ask and she decides to end things, I take no responsibility. Please understand.
This is your chance to show your courage.
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That isn’t included in the description of the arrangement, so it’s a mistake to expect it.
That said, since both parties are human, it seems that unexpected things can sometimes happen. It’s simply a matter of acknowledging that such things do occur in the world. It has absolutely nothing to do with whether anything will happen between you and someone else.
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