I’m getting flooded with emails and LINE messages from all kinds of older guys for Christmas, and it’s really annoying. I wish they’d let me take a break from PJ at least around this time of year, but are papa-katsu guys generally that bad at reading the room?
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Does anyone have a good stock reply I could send?
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I’m Fuu, and I can read the room—I don’t send any LINE messages at all on Christmas.
Wouldn’t it be better to just not open LINE and leave the messages unread?
Then, if you message them afterward saying you spent Christmas with your boyfriend, wouldn’t some of the genuinely infatuated papas (male supporters) break things off with you, making life a little easier?
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You should take a break.
But keep in mind that there are plenty of rivals out there.
I currently have a set number of partners, but if I let my guard down, I’d probably switch to another woman in no time.
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I actually received messages from six women.
I took them as seasonal greetings, much like New Year’s messages, so I didn’t think they were being tone-deaf.
Wouldn’t it be fine to simply reply, “Thank you. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas too, [name]”?
The messages I received also included things we usually talk about, so I added a reply to those points as well.
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You just shouldn’t date someone who’s only coming around for that.
I’ve received Christmas messages and gifts from women who have no intention of continuing things.
As for the girls I’m regularly seeing and particularly like, I just exchange messages with the ones I’ve been in touch with—nothing about Christmas, just our usual LINE chats.
Christmas Eve is a day to spend with your family or partner.
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I was actually the one sending the LINE messages, haha.
I’d message people who seemed like they’d be happy to hear from me, or someone I hadn’t seen recently and probably wouldn’t be able to see again before the end of the year, since there might be a long gap between messages…
On the other hand, there are also people who don’t message because they’re trying not to impose, so I match their pace too.
As an example, maybe something like:
“Merry Christmas♡ The weather’s bad, so please be careful,”
or something along those lines?
I think it’s best to tailor the message to the man you’re seeing.
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Haha, same here! lol
I sent one too, and I’m absolutely hopeless at reading the mood! lol
But I got this reply:
“Merry Christmas. Let’s take our time and ○○.”
They said, “Let’s take our time and ○○,” after all. lol
It’s fun, isn’t it? lol
Good luck to you too!
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If your papa (a male supporter) likes cute messages, something like:
“Wishing you a Merry Christmas, ○○!! 🎄
I was so happy to meet you this year and do [be specific about what you did together] with you ♡
Thank you so much for everything, as always! [If he generally uses polite language, add a more formal touch; if he likes a closer, more casual relationship, use a little casual speech.] ✨
I hope you have a wonderful Christmas too, ○○.
I’d be happy if we could be affectionate again the next time we meet ♡ [Add this if he’s comfortable with risqué jokes. If not, mention a date you’d like to go on or say you’re looking forward to spending time together again instead.]
That’s probably the general idea~
Merry Christmas → looking back on the past → expressing gratitude → suggesting something for the future
That’s the basic format. Just tailor it to the person. You’ve got this! ⊂((・x・))⊃
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