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Dec 24, 2022 06:10
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Age: 50s
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Around 25, men in their 40s look like old guys.
So maybe if you’re around 30, men in their 40s don’t look that old?
I think that way of thinking is completely misguided.
The right mindset is:
No matter who’s looking at you—or whether it’s men or women—make an effort not to look like an old guy.
Invest in your appearance and your health.
Everyone’s looks deteriorate with age. If you make no effort and take no preventive measures, that deterioration only accelerates.
Do you really think the men people call “handsome older guys”—or actors—stay that way without making any effort or investing in themselves?
Let’s face reality.
It’s me.
Other
If a man looks like an old guy, then he’s an old guy—even if he’s only 28. Especially if he lacks basic grooming and cleanliness, that “old guy” vibe becomes even stronger.
Even in your 40s, if you put as much effort into anti-aging as an actor, you can become a handsome older man instead of just an old guy. You don’t have to look young, do you?
Men who cling to their youth forever are hard to watch, no matter how old they are.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
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The article even describes 35-year-old Messi as “old.” Old.
You can stay active longer in ball games and sports that use equipment, but when you’re relying solely on your body, many people retire in their 20s.
You could say that’s when life as an “older guy” begins—and your real life begins, too.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
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Once you’re in your late 30s, you’re definitely a middle-aged guy.
That said, life is way more fun after becoming an old guy.
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My own son is around that age, so I tried looking at it from that perspective—but no, he’s not exactly a “younger guy” (lol).
If even I see it that way, I doubt a woman in her late twenties or early thirties would call him a “younger guy” either (lol).
Also, by that age, people are gradually establishing themselves in their careers and positions at work. It seems like a time when they want to be recognized by society as capable, mature men.
So even if you feel young at heart, I think it’s better to fully embrace being a capable, kind, mature man whom everyone respects.
Other
It’s not really the age gap that makes someone feel like an “older guy.” The higher the number itself, the more he’s simply considered an older man—or even an old man.
That said, there are different kinds of older men. Some, like Yutaka Takenouchi or Hidetoshi Nishijima, are charming and well-liked by the public, while others make people think, “This guy…,” and want to avoid them.
So I think it would be helpful to study and analyze what makes well-liked older men around your age appealing beyond their looks, and try to emulate those qualities.
Other
Rather than calling someone an “old guy” based on the woman’s age,
I think anyone in their 40s—whether male or female—is middle-aged.
Please understand that being in your 40s means you’re old.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
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Anyone over 40 is an older guy. Let’s aim to be stylish older guys.
Other
I think it depends on the person.
Though, generally speaking, they’re probably older men.
There are men who look and feel young and attractive no matter how old they are, while some younger men just don’t come across that way, you know.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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How do you feel about women in their 50s now that you’re in your 40s?
And when you were in your 30s, what did you think of women in their 40s?
When it comes to appearance and skin, women are held to much stricter standards under the label of “looking clean and well-groomed,” so let’s just accept that we’re seen as middle-aged men.
Rather than chasing fantasies, I think it’s wiser to think strategically about how a middle-aged man can avoid being disliked by younger women and get them to be sexually accommodating.
Age: Private
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I’m an older guy.
Generally speaking, whether someone is considered an “old man” depends not on the relative age gap, but on their absolute age, appearance, and behavior.
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The moment you find yourself wondering, “Do I look like an old guy?”—you’re already an old guy in the eyes of women of any age.
In extreme cases, even if you’re a man in your twenties, if you’re thinking, “Am I already kind of an old guy?” then chances are, you probably are.
That said, men who maintain a clean, well-groomed appearance through training and a healthy diet, and who live energetic, fulfilling lives at work and in their personal lives, generally won’t be seen as “old guys.” They probably wouldn’t be wondering, “Am I an old guy?” in the first place...
So if you’re obviously an old guy but still think, “I’m not an old guy,” be careful—the other person may find that pretty cringe.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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He’s definitely an older guy.
Even when someone flatters you, try not to take it at face value.