If I became more beautiful, would I be able to have what people call a good relationship?
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I’d like to date a man who’s considered successful. However, I’m already being approached by someone who earns more than average. Even so, part of me keeps wanting more and more.
Considering my background, the person showing interest in me is more than I could reasonably ask for. My background is considerably worse than average, so I should normally be satisfied.
Why do you think I keep wanting more? I also wonder if becoming even more beautiful—and achieving that—would finally make me feel fulfilled.
I feel like the answer may already be somewhere in your heart.
Even if you become more beautiful or wealthier, there are times when you still don’t feel fulfilled. You may think, “If only I could become ___,” but surprisingly, even after you do, things may not change that much（笑）.
Where do you feel happy and fulfilled?
Wanting to aim higher and higher can be a positive thing because it motivates you to grow. But if you give up somewhere along the way and still don’t feel fulfilled, it must be exhausting—life might start to feel difficult.
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I feel it’s a shame that money has become the measure and standard for judging everything.
You may want to argue, “That’s not true!” But as long as that remains the case, you may be far from the kind of natural charm that shines through.
Akari
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What does a good relationship mean to you?
Even among wealthy people, there are plenty who are tacky, newly rich, and lacking in class.
So if you’re dating someone wealthy, can you really say you’re in a good relationship?
And is becoming beautiful only about your appearance?
Personally, I don’t find beauty without substance attractive.
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Watch “Monster Love” and study up. Work hard to make your dreams come true. Go in for a kiss with your own initiative—even if they have terrible breath.
If there’s another Kuro-chan project or a new project featuring Anga’s Tanaka, apply for it as practice. I’m rooting for you.
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Some people ask, “I want to find fulfilling work. How can I find a job that gives me a sense of purpose?”
The answer is to find purpose in the work right in front of you.
There aren’t many easy opportunities where someone who can’t find meaning in their current job suddenly discovers a truly fulfilling one.
Rather than focusing on yourself, you need to start by thinking about how you can fulfill the person in front of you. Only then can you feel fulfilled yourself. Otherwise, it will never happen.
It’s not just about looks.
Income has nothing to do with having a good relationship. In fact, the more “successful” you are, the more it can sometimes turn into an unhealthy relationship. Just look at celebrities—you can see that being a high-income couple doesn’t necessarily mean being a happy one.
This isn’t exactly about fulfillment, but if you can’t genuinely engage with the person in front of you, things will end without either of you bringing out the best in the other. Don’t focus on the terms. And don’t think about what you’ll get in return, either.
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In your case, I don’t think becoming even prettier will help you have the kind of relationship you want.
From the way you use phrases like “the winners” and “men who earn more than average,” I get the impression that you judge potential partners mainly by their income, and that you’re consumed by the desire to date someone who scores highly by those standards.
Why do you keep wanting more and more?
Because you lack confidence in yourself. Dating a man with a high income score seems to be your way of raising your own perceived value.
But for a relationship to work, there has to be a balance between the two people. You’re trying to offset a man’s income with a woman’s beauty. Since you’ve set the income level you’re looking for extremely high, it’s only natural that the beauty you feel you need to match it keeps rising without limit.
At the beginning, I said I don’t think you’ll be able to have a good relationship because successful men often don’t try to balance their own income against a woman’s looks as simply as you seem to imagine.
I respect your desire to date a successful man, but at least it won’t come true just because you become prettier. Instead of focusing on your appearance, think about what else you need to improve to make your wish come true.
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That’s perfectly fine.
Whether it’s marriage hunting or papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), let’s do our best by making the most of our strengths.
When it comes to catching a man, looks only account for half of it—the rest is all about convincingly making him fall genuinely in love with you.
I watched Kuro-chan’s TV show too. I guess it takes guts to go in for a kiss with Kuro-chan, who earns 30 million yen a year.
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Just because you become more beautiful doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll have a great love life—or end up dating someone successful.
That said, there’s no doubt that more men will approach you, so your chances of finding a good relationship should increase! Though, of course, you may also attract some less desirable ones…
Personally, I feel that life wouldn’t be very enjoyable if I lost the ambition to keep striving for “more and more.” So I hope to remain a woman who is beautiful not only on the outside but also on the inside, for my entire life.
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> Do you think becoming more beautiful will lead to the kind of good relationship people talk about?
Not at all.
> Why do you think I keep wanting more and more?
Because I think you’re greedy.
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