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Dec 18, 2022 00:43
6 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m not sure whether you mean that you’d hate to part ways after just having tea, or that you’d prefer to end things after tea only.
Generally speaking, ending the meeting after just tea is probably pretty rare.
If a man is only interested in intimacy and doesn’t want to spend money or time on a meal, he might suggest having tea and then going to a hotel.
But since the basic expectation is that he’ll take you out for a meal, I think over 99% of men will invite you to eat.
So in most cases, you’ll have a meal first, and then talk about what to do afterward.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I generally make a reservation at a restaurant, so I’ve never ended things after just having tea.
If you want to get a feel for someone over tea alone, I think it’s better for the woman to make that clear when she receives the offer.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve also had first meetings that ended after just tea.
That said, although I pay per meeting, I arrange things so the allowance comes to a set monthly amount. Over four years together, there are naturally times when we’re both busy.
However, in my case, please don’t keep things going as tea-only dates. I see Universe as basically a place that introduces you to a mistress or companion, so I’ll look for tea-only friends myself.
Other
Yes, there are.
When 3 p.m. was the most convenient time for both of us on a first date, we met at a café. Things didn’t really click, so we just had tea and went our separate ways.
I’ve also suggested meeting up just for coffee and then parting ways because I wanted to see a woman I’d been seeing regularly, even if only briefly.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Yes, that happens.
Since she preferred not to meet over a meal, we met for tea instead. Once we met, I found her boring, so we chatted over tea for about 30 minutes and then parted ways. She was so boring that I didn’t even ask for her LINE.
Like Adventurer Merchant, I also sometimes go on tea-only dates with women I’m still seeing.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
With Universe Club, if you choose option A or B, the first meeting is usually just a meal.
Meeting only for coffee isn’t very common, but if you write that you’d prefer just coffee, busy people may understand.
If you want to make money from coffee-only meetings from the start, I recommend using an app.