Tips May 17, 2019 16:27

Market rates come up often, but I don't know what tier I'm in, so things often get awkward when money is discussed.

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For example, a member may think, "Since I'm Gold, this is about right," while the woman may think she's Platinum and expect this amount, right? Of course, it's something both sides need to discuss, but I feel that knowing your own rank would make it easier to talk things through and eliminate these discrepancies.
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Maezawa here. “Even if a member thinks, ‘She’s Gold, so this is about what I should offer,’ the woman may see herself as Platinum and expect that much, right?” Actually, that premise is mistaken. Well, perhaps that’s how men would prefer things to be, and maybe negotiations do eventually converge in that direction. But male members probably already know this: There are women who are officially Gold but are really Platinum quality—or perhaps just barely good enough to qualify as Black. If you’re checking for newly registered women every day, you might come across several like that in a week. (Am I exaggerating a little?) And sometimes you meet a woman who’s wonderful—far better than her registered class—and you’re completely satisfied. Maybe she has elegant mannerisms, communicates wonderfully, or has a great personality. There are plenty of women like that when you add them all up, so why try to decide everything based on class? A class is simply something the club assigns. It isn’t absolute. There have even been women who received no offers when registered as Gold, but later registered as Black Secret and received offers despite a setting fee several times higher than usual. If you use the setting fee as a guideline for the allowance, would you negotiate with that Black woman for ¥30,000? Or would you offer ¥30,000 to a woman who, despite being registered as Gold, is worth more than a Black woman? Isn’t it more natural to meet her, see for yourself, get a feel for her, and then negotiate? Please stop trying to turn Universe into a delivery health service. This is a place that arranges dates. What happens afterward is自由恋愛—free-form dating—but there is no fixed price attached to it. Since the relationship between the woman and man is based on free-form dating, I think women should have more confidence and shouldn’t force themselves to accept less than they’re hoping for. Maybe they worry that turning someone down will get them accused of being a 交際タイプ詐欺, but that isn’t a scam at all. It simply means the man wasn’t financially capable enough. Of course, I’m not saying that higher amounts are always better. I just want both men and women to pursue arrangements they’re comfortable with and avoid regrets. The reason women aren’t told their class was explained in an earlier post by the representative.
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