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Dec 14, 2022 00:34
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I think the best shortcut is to continue seeing someone you genuinely want to build a relationship with, rather than fixating on “I want one million yen!”
Meeting a man for the first time after receiving an offer and getting ¥10,000 for transportation, then receiving around ¥50,000 for an adult relationship—that’s fairly standard in the交際クラブ world, so I think it’s fine to set goals in terms of numbers.
*In fact, it’s perfectly reasonable to have a personal rule that you won’t continue seeing a man who doesn’t even give you ¥10,000 for transportation.*
However, receiving a ¥1 million gift is generally not something you could call standard, even within交際クラブ, so making that your target will probably be quite difficult.
I’m giving the person I’m seeing a gift worth over ¥1 million this Christmas. But she doesn’t see me because “she wants an allowance,” nor does she like me simply because I give her ¥1 million worth of gifts. I give it to her because I can genuinely feel that she values me as a person—not just the banknotes.
I think moving away from the figure of ¥1 million is actually the best way to get closer to it.
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I think it means becoming deeply involved with your papa.
The way men describe a “deep relationship” varies. My current papa often says things like, “You’re family now,” “How would you ever get by without me?” or, “It’s like I picked up a stray dog, and now that it follows me around, I can’t not keep it, haha.” Whenever a puppy video comes up on YouTube, he says, “That’s just like you.”
I’ve also had papas tell me, “I’ve never had a relationship like this before”—sometimes including the emotional side of things.
But honestly, I really like the papa who doesn’t give me gifts, too. I like him enough that if I lost him, I’d be so sad I probably wouldn’t be able to focus on work every day.
So my relationship with this papa wouldn’t change at all just because he didn’t give me a million yen for Christmas. But I’d hate for a man reading this to think, “Oh, then I don’t need to give her any money.” That’s exactly the kind of thing I mean. This papa also keeps up his monthly arrangement properly.
I think if both people have a sense of responsibility and sincerity, the relationship can last a long time.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
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I’m sure there are quite a few women who have that kind of know-how by now.
That said, I think it would be difficult to explain it all in words, and the strategy would probably vary depending on the woman’s personality.
More than anything, once men found out about those strategies, they probably wouldn’t work anymore. And I can’t imagine someone teaching hard-earned techniques to anonymous strangers they don’t even know.
The internet has become widespread, and all kinds of information are now available for free. Even so, I think there’s still information that isn’t easy to come by.
So I think it really comes down to:
Trying different things for yourself.
Meeting various papas.
Come to think of it, Universe used to hold papa-katsu seminars for women a few years ago. They stopped after the person in charge left, though.
Apparently, she now shares information on Twitter. If you become friendly with her, you might be able to get some useful advice.
She’s an amazing person who received hundreds of millions of yen through papa-katsu, including gifts. Personally, I quite like her. I don’t know how to contact her, though. lol
https://twitter.com/nanaseyui_no2
Although, now that I look at it, she seems to have stopped updating...
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What kind of papa (male supporter) would give you an expensive Christmas present or even ¥1 million?
It wasn’t for Christmas, but my monthly-arrangement papa gave me my allowance in a bundle. He said something like, “I’ll give it to you all at once rather than month by month.”
My papa is incredibly considerate, but he also understands the value of money.
You might receive that kind of gift after getting to know a papa you’ve built a trusting relationship with over several months.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
My ¥100,000 papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) coaching course includes “How to receive ¥1 million at Christmas.” If you decide by the end of today, you can get it for half price—¥50,000—as part of our Christmas campaign. Interested?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It comes down to whether you can genuinely be happy with even 2,300 yen.
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I think the first step is figuring out what kind of person she is.
I’ve never given a PJ a gift, so no matter what she says, I won’t give her a single penny. Once, I gave a woman flowers for her birthday, and she got carried away and asked me to add extra to her allowance as a birthday present. I just smiled and brushed it off. Since she was in the intimate category, I didn’t cut things off just because she asked for a gift. As long as she delivers in bed, that’s good enough for me.
Some people do ask for gifts from time to time. The birthday angle is the most common—there was one woman who claimed her birthday was next month every time we met. Maybe, like those phone scams, it’s a numbers game: if you try often enough, someone will take the bait.
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