Tips Dec 10, 2022 17:48

What do you think of girls who call only after the agreed meeting time of 7 p.m. has passed—or even after a considerable delay—on their first date from an offer?

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I can’t accept that. How do you all feel about it?
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 40s 👑 Universe male member
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Thank you. Thanks to narrow-minded papas like the person asking this question, even someone unpopular and unattractive like me can become a kind, calm, and wonderful person who carries himself with the composure and gentlemanly attitude of a mature adult. I have nothing but gratitude. So please continue to get angry with me, whether I go way over the line or only cross it a little.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Come to think of it, there was a man who got angry at a woman for calling him 20 minutes early. She told him she’d call when she arrived, but when the scheduled time came, she still hadn’t called, so she contacted the club. When we checked with the man, he said: “She called from a blocked number, so I couldn’t call her back. I’ve already gone home—there’s no way I can go on a date now.” He was furious. The woman was truly the one who suffered because of the man’s selfishness. I think the person asking this question is probably the same type. If you want everything to be on your own terms, you’d be better off going to a hostess club or a sex-service establishment. Maybe you speak to your wife the same way, but at least you probably didn’t say things like that when you were dating, did you? I think things go more smoothly if you don’t nitpick every little detail.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you can’t accept it, why not just end the relationship? I’m not meeting women for work, so it doesn’t bother me at all.
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I call right on time, since calling five minutes early feels like I’m rushing them. If someone is a person you can’t accept, it’s perfectly fine to give them just their transportation fare when they arrive and say goodbye. Marika
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Are you looking for content, or do you actually want to enjoy it? Do you want to be catered to, or do you want to be the one providing? If you make the person receiving money do all the providing, it’s no fun. That’s just boring papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), with not a shred of genuine feeling. Men think they’re having an enjoyable conversation—they listened properly and responded. No, that’s not it. Women want a reaction. That isn’t a conversation; it’s boring.
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
Women take more time, effort, and money to get ready than men do, so try to look at it that way. If the reason is, “Oh no, my makeup got a little messed up. I want to look my absolute cutest for at least the first date,” isn’t that kind of adorable? It’s me.
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The club told me five minutes beforehand, but... These days, they usually say to call once you arrive. I typically arrive about 30 minutes early, so that’s way too soon for me. Oh, and one more thing: you write “exactly on time,” not “超ド.”
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s really not a big deal. If they’re exactly on time, I find it kind of endearing to imagine them waiting with their phone clutched in their hand for several minutes beforehand. Being a little late doesn’t bother me either—five minutes is nothing. If it’s ten minutes, though, I do think they could at least send a quick message. You sound pretty narrow-minded, so maybe you should have a super-sadistic woman stretch your asshole for you.
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